Got a friend in the office is fun you know. In addition to having friends lunch together we also have a place to vent numpahin unek-unek in the office. Bete abis diomelin boss or dizzy because of work piling up, can diaduin to my friend. Yes even though he can only hear, entertain, and give a little solution but the presence of my pal in the office was quite tasteless!
But really, not everyone has a friend in the office. And not everyone can find friends in the office. If you include people who do not have friends in the office, there are several possible causes.
First, because the demands of work are not possible. For example every day the job level is so high. So you do not have a chance to socialize with colleagues office. In addition, the condition of your friends 'sami mawon'. This means they are also quite busy with their work respectively. So let alone have a friend, just chatting or hanging barrels! g office friends aja difficult.
The second possibility is you can not or do not like to hang out. Your friendship relationship in the office can be spelled out for job interest. You also do not need friends because you are quite comfortable with yourself. Or it could be that you just feel uncomfortable if you have to share with friends. You feel annoyed if there are friends who want to get along more familiar with you. You feel more 'enjoy' yourself because it is more free and not chained by things that are often done with friends.
But maybe also your condition is without friends because no one is interested in making you a friend. The cause may be because you are less sociable or you are too selfish and consider yourself the greatest. So friends in the office environment was reluctant to make friends with you.
If you are more 'enjoy' without your buddy in the office it's okay! But think too forever you can survive without a single person who can make the talk and discussion when you need? Believe in your own independence, someday you need someone who can listen to grief, sadness as well as your joy and joy.
Well, you who do not have a pal in the office, it would not hurt if you start a friendship more intimate with one or two friends in the office. Begin to open up more. Try to approach some colleagues that you feel are right for you.
If you have found a fitting fit for you, surely you will feel the difference compared to when you do not have a best friend. At least you will not 'jutek' again if again all in the office. Especially if by chance your friend works in the same field with you. You can discuss and share if there are difficulties in the job. But remember, the friendship you build should not be based on the intent to seek unilateral profit.
It is better if your friendship in the office is based on the principle of 'mutual benefit'. This means that you both want to share, give, and receive sincerely. In short, your friendship in the office should have a positive impact on your personal and work development and your buddy. You should be able to restore the spirit if your friend is 'down'. And you should not be squeamish if your friend get promotion while you are not. Vice versa.
However, you should underline, do not let your friendship relationships interfere with other friends in the office. Familiar with sohib allowed, but socialize with other colleagues sekantor also need you know. Well, good friendship in the office ..!