It is a real controversy, when we ask ourselves this question, does love really hurt? I have inquired about the subject, with some friends and in most of their answers I have found the affirmation that at some point in their lives it has hurt a lot the breakup of a relationship, either by own mistakes or simply by lack of love. In both situations it is not that love hurts, it is well known that love is the clear and transparent feeling totally beautiful, which is pure when it is sincere endowed with loyalty, sincerity, tolerance and in a certain naive way and given from the bottom of being One of the things that happens is that we sometimes get confused and do not know how to handle our emotions. I would affirm that the fact of feeling this feeling, in some people transforms them, changing our way of acting, making us to be even wild, without any explanation, appropriating the life of whoever is with us.
While they say that love does not hurt, each experience teaches us in any way, each situation is usually different from another, although with great similarity when taking them to be. The culmination of a relationship, however painful it may be, always leaves us with a lesson, the fact that when we arrive at what is only a memory of what we have experienced, we often laugh at the past. It is when we recognize how stupid we were and we take this experience to reconsider and not fall into the same mistakes again. After almost everything we can come to the conclusion that love does not hurt and everything that happens is because we simply allow it.
In reality it becomes useless for anyone injured by their previous relationships to provide real love. The truth is difficult the so-called saving people, who try to help others through a so-called love of salvation, in reality they desperately need to save themselves. Everything is simple, controversial simply that we should let it go, so that they can heal, which will help us to free ourselves and stop hurting ourselves, because love does not hurt, it does not have to hurt like that in that way.
The most important thing is to take off that mask of saving, to find people with a broken heart, and to play to be the savior of who or who, many times I have mentioned that being happy is a decision, well if now we can affirm that love is not It hurts, because we are each one of us who decide to love ourselves first so we can radiate a healthy and good love impossible to cause stormy feelings in those who give us their love.
