This blog post is mostly for the guys. Just sharing few tips from a female perspective.
So guys let’s start from the beginning…
You often sit at home wondering why you don’t get any girls. It’s easy, you’re just not proactive or confident enough, but that is very easy to change :)
First of all, you don’t need to look like Ryan Gosling to go out with a girl, even with a very hot girl. However, you do need to be well groomed and smell good. That is very important.
You don’t need to be dressed by the latest designers. You can wear something simple but it needs to be fresh and clean. No need to be a fashion guru to put an outfit together. You can wear something simple as white t-shirt and black jeans.
Lastly you don’t need to be rich in order to get girls.
So in our modern times it became pretty standard to meet people online. Either using dating sites or dating apps. I myself used these apps before. One thing that girls hate when they’re talking to a guy online is SMALL TALK.
You don’t need to ask her how is she or what is up. You don’t need to ask her anything actually. If you see a woman you like on there you need to tell her how amazing she looks, and that you want to invite her out to have dinner with you. Trust me, this automatically puts you in her top 10% because most guys on there are just small talkers and nothing else.
Just be straightforward and ask her out, don’t worry if she says no. There are million girls out there and someone will say yes. It’s simple statistics. This doesn’t just cover dating apps, it also applies to women you see and meet when you go out. Don’t be scared to approach a woman, look her in the eyes and tell her that she looks great, and you would like to have dinner with her.
Women love confidence. Forget the rejection fear! It doesn’t exist in your world anymore. Women are like horses in that way when they feel that you’re scared they’ll throw you off. So you need to be confident need to be confident. Show that you chose HER to go out with you, she should feel lucky because YOU chose her. YOU ARE THE PRIZE- that should be your mental frame during these situations. I don't care if you look like an ugly midget and she's a top model. ALWAYS KEEP THE MENTAL FRAME.
Keep that in mind each time you try to ask someone out. Of course practice makes perfect. If your skills are little rusty you should use the golden rule of repetition. Then eventually you’ll be a natural :)
Again, don’t be afraid of rejection, if she rejects you then it’s not your woman, don’t think of it as a failure on your part. A girl said no and she forgot about you in a second. She won't dwell on it. Maybe she said no because she already has a bf, husband etc, so no need to dwell on that rejection as well. In a grand scheme of things this won’t matter at all.
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