Life is not about to be promised you have to do the work to finish the work what's the promise at any point in time you must have to really start you don't lose your trust in people not because you feel like it but because you're tired of only showing up when it is convenient which is not the right thing to do.
You must show up whether it is convenient for you or not and it must be at the right time because people trust consistency the more you're consistent
The more they trust you and the more people want to always be around you so that is life for you so don't make promise and say that achieving anything always go for what you like and what you love always.