Has anyone heard of someone's mother being from someone? In our country this is quite a matter of cooking chicken broth with a lot of it.
After being a mother, she is always somewhat distraught, somewhat disheartened, somewhat annoyed, somewhat frustrated, after her physical changes, psychological changes, hormonal imbalance, sleep deprivation, stress, childish, and breastfeeding. Whether the child is feeling cold, whether he has got a rash, whether it is rash on the skin, and whether it is stomach - etc. He is always obsessed with various thoughts.
The girl who always gave cajal in the eye, now she does not have time to look at the mirror day and day, instead of Kajal, in the corner of her eyes, she is now in a dark night because of the night. Always matching with every dress or wearing perfect earrings and bracelets with perfect contrast, the girl is now day after day dirty maxi, or loose teaser and pajjos.
Sometimes a straight iron, sometimes curled, sometimes laden hairstyle, keeps the hair tied in the same day every day, sometimes it does not get time to wrap the head and it does not get time.
##vBut what was supposed to happen?
Since the child is in the womb, the girl's (!) Suggestions and well wishes have started to forget her.
Repeatedly, I think I can not give 100%, I do not think I can be a good mother, I do not know anything, except me, everyone understands the child well.
This change of heart becomes gradually transformed into depression due to hormonal changes and physical factors. And it is even more intense after childbirth, after childbirth. This time is called Postpartum Depression or Baby Blues. Due to not looking at themselves and not giving time to myself, the sharpness of depression continued to increase.
At that time everyone asks how the baby is. Mother is a very limited number of people who want to know.
The night is awake, due to breastfeeding, there is fatigue in the body, many blood pressure becomes high due to sleep deficiency and stress.
There are few people who have a hand in their head. Nobody laughed sweetly, "You Are Doing a Great Job Mommy!"
Usually, no one says, "You're a little sleepy, take a little away from the outside, I'm keeping your baby there." This sympathy and cooperation are all but the rights of all new moms.
Talking to my friend a few days ago. He said, "The oil-lotion on the girl's daughter, Machi. I do not have time to wear myself. My condition is like a slum, skin has become like an old man. "
The heart became worse, hearing her words. I immediately said to him, "Please, my friend, do not do that. When the girl is wearing a spell, she will also use it. Take care of yourself, otherwise you will have to go to a difficult depression. It is important to keep your mind well. It is very important to love yourself. Otherwise, you can not even make people around you a good one. "
He said that one of his relatives saw him wearing a lotion and said that the child should not even eat himself.
Postpartum depression is lasting for some. Family, friends, people in the neighborhood should definitely be supported.
But you yourself are cooperating yourself? Can you understand how much impartant it is to be good?
Child must be your first priority. You yourself but your priority Take care of yourself as well as your child's care.
Whatever you like to do, do so. Spend time apart from all the busy times. Read books, watch a movie, come out on time, shop, if you love to crafting or painting, write the handwriting. Keep in touch with friends, school, college or university friends. Take care of your skin, take care of hair, dress up.
Your mind will be good. It will also be good for your children and your family
