Siblings often fight, and that is something I also do. I fight with my sister quite often, but it is never a serious fight. It is always a funny kind of fight that actually strengthens the bond between the two of us.
She often scares me by saying that one day she will leave when she gets married, and then I will cry remembering her. I always deny it and tell her that I will be happy when she is gone.
But deep inside my heart, I know the truth. I know that I will not be able to handle that separation when my sister is no longer living with me.
Time is going to change very soon, and we are going to meet less. That is how life works, but even thinking about it scares me.
My parents have already started looking for a suitable man for my sister, as she does not have any choice of her own at the moment.
We always ask her if she likes someone, and we tell her that she can share it with us freely. But she says there is no one in her life and that she wants us to find someone for her.
So now we are trying to find someone she can connect with properly and someone she would be comfortable marrying. This is the reality of life.
You fight with your siblings throughout your childhood, but one day comes when everyone starts moving in different directions because of jobs, responsibilities, and life priorities.
That is the time when you start missing those fights and the memories you created together.
If you are in your early teenage years and living with your siblings, enjoy that phase of life. It will never come back once it is gone. You will feel it one day, just like I am already feeling it now at the age of 26.
At this stage of life, I think less about myself and more about my family. I think about my parents, my son, and now even my sister.
I cannot leave all these responsibilities to my father alone. I know that my priorities have changed, and there is not much time left where I can think only about myself.
I am going to miss those fights, the bond, and even the small hidden parties we used to do when our parents were not at home.
Even today, when no one was at home, we ordered chili potato and chowmein from outside and ate it together.
We do not go to expensive restaurants, but that moment felt very special. It did not cost much money, yet it created a beautiful memory.
There are countless such moments and incidents that I can talk about and laugh about forever. These small things are what truly stay with us.
That is all I wanted to share today. This is not about games or anything I usually write about. It is just a simple life blog.
Thank you.
