It is important that we deal with temper. We deal with human being and other creature everyday of our life, so the of force being triggered to be angry is always high. What matters a lot is not just being angry or being trick out to be angry, but the act of controlling it. Many persons for victim of Acting while they are angry which is totally wrong. For sure one thing I know is that we cannot avoid totally being angry in as much as we can know afford human being. In a situation where you are triggered to be angry what can you do to prevent those feeling and become calm again. Has he acted out of anger before or out of hot temper that regretted before? Many persons don't have a good story about their action when they are angry, therefore we should always learn to control our temper in every condition and every situation.
Some persons always say that when they are angry they live to environment which the incident occur and possibly when they return they will be calm and relaxed. So what will happen in a situation where you cannot leave that environment that means that everybody will not be safe again. Meanwhile, what matters a lot is to be able to control the temper. Sometime ago in my 200 Level, a coursemate of mine did something that made me very angry and I reacted because of that. It was not an easy stuff it is not something I wanted to do but at that moment I had to react. Because this was something that was playing a joke with dreams and goals in school. There was a time today had some issues in school and the matter was about dying and of a sudden because a coursemate of mine brought the matter.
And I Was looking at this students and I was saying them being expelled from the school if nothing is being done. Then out of anger I shouted at my coursemate for the very first day and First time shouting at someone in school and it happens to be a follow coursemate, everyone was surprised because I don't talk much and see me reacting that way, everyone had to give me an attention. After shouting I had to leave that environment because the matter was going up and up the more and that's not what I want. I left the school environment immediately I went to my house because it was not that far, thereafter the school hours, I was not just okay with the whole thing just that I had to stop the continuation of the issues but the way I stopped it wasn't right, and she is my good friend, so I have to go and visit her and apologize and she was also apologizing before I could say so. Many a times we get annoyed but it is important we don't let it take the better part of us.
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