Hello steemians!!
Actually For many years, I have been dreaming on how to put my ideas, discoveries and facts so to reach many people. Its been a difficult task tho
But I'm still so glad to be part of Steemit this amazing platform where I can express my self and reach to many people,both youths and adults, different race,and in various places.
For the past few days here on steemit I've been writing about How to develop your self, How to achieve your dreams, glory of self-determination, and Self-esteem, Values and how to identify your values.
So today I wrote about Self-confidenceand how to build Self-confidence
Self confidence is essential to achieving success in any endeavor. You should build self confidence to excel in life. You acquire it by doing,learning, accomplishing and persisting.
Believe in your self and know that you are one of a kind. Know that you are here, that life exists and identity, that the powerful play goes on,and you will contribute a verse.
There's no one else like you on this planet. No one looks like you, no one has the same talents experiences or perspective as you do.
You are unique and are therefore here to make your unique contribution. If we all focus on what we bring into the the world to share,there can be no comparison ,envy or regret. We are Here to contribute a verse.
For you to build your self-confidence firstly
GIVE IT YOUR BEST
When you do the best you can,with the best of what you have,you cannot help but feel good about yourself and that confidence comes through in everything that you do.
Giving it your best makes you unafraid to take risk or step out of your comfort-zone both great confidence builders.
Everybody has setbacks and obstacles to contend.Do not let them undermine your confidence. Treat them as oportunities to strengthen your resolve and the preserve.
Overcoming adversity builds and strengthens self-confidence.
Do you know The greatest songs,works of art and literary pieces were written by those who have experienced depths of despair, loss,emptiness and overcame them. Experiencing sadness and loss,and then rising above them,gives rise to hope and triumph. It makes you stretch and become more than you were
Set goals for yourself and then push yourself to reach them. Self-confidence soars when you know you can do what you put your mind to. It makes you feel unstoppable.
Separate your self from Event And Confront your fears.
You're not what happens to you,nor how you believe others see you. In other words,you are not what happens to you,nor are you defined by how others see you.You're whom you choose to be.
I will be frank now, everyone feels fear at various times. We are humans, however facing circumstances with courage and poise strengthens character and builds self confidence.
LIVING PURPOSEFULLY BRINGS BLESSING
This is my central aim of writing this piece for everyone to live purposefully in life. Some people are living,not knowing why. Some fail to make decisions that will last and help them to reach their goal.
All we should ask ourselves is Why am I here who am I? Where am I going?
These and more are questions you need to ask yourself and go on in the search for a meaningful answer.
My heart bleeds when I see some yoths missing the mark. We should go near some older persons and hear Lamentations. Some of them whisper,how I wish I'm a youth now I think I should have done this and that. This little voice of disappointments calls for another opportunity.
The search for this purpose of life is one of the deepest of our experiences as human beings.
Deep in our hearts, we all want to find and fulfill a purpose bigger than ourselves. The life of purpose is a life of uniqueness. Each one of us is unique but to represent such is another thing.
You are being created good and should live your life as such.
Do you know that all of us have different DNA's and fingerprints? This discloses your personal uniqueness.
When i talk about purposeful living , it calls for faithfulness even at the meanest task committed into your hands.
The most important part, and yet the most difficult part of fulfilling a life purpose is actually "doing it" "Taking Action"
We cannot wait for certainty and the assurance that everything will work out as we would like it to.
You must take risks if you are to live it out your dreams.
It is only in the realization of set dreams and goals that purpose ring true.
Actually knowing your life purpose takes time. It requires an open mind,and a willingness to listen and learn. However, once you know what you are to do ,you can meet the challenges ahead on.
Fulfilling your life purpose requires commitment and preservrance. It will not be easy. Yet what better hope than reaching the end of your life,and been able to say " I lived fully ,I lived on purpose.
Now who is youth
A youth is one designed and created for success. He starts his purposeful life and living when he knows the reason for his existence and seeks to achieve it. He is highly focused in life. He set his goal and target to reach it.
Any one who seeks to succeed cannot overrule the power of focus. When focused in life,you cannot be defeated.
A good intentional focus drives you to your purpose, destiny and dream quickly. You should not pursue many things at a time for you will end up missing all and not achieving anything.
So I advise everyone to pursue a rabbit at a time and not two. You should not be tired, or get frustrated when you know what to do. The friction and stress of being pulled in many directions may eat you up, leaving you less able and focused to move forward .
My heart goes for the youth who do not know exactly what they want in life and the ones who known but do not know how to go for it.A purposeful youth life is learning how to priotize in his life.
Naturally,you may express some elements of fear. As you choose what you wanna be in life
Now ask your self this question
How can I achieve MY DREAMS...
Stop trying to be perfect
Stop trying to be someone else
Stop trying to do everything
The life of a youth Embraces many ideas, project and many things to do But the truth is that some of these things are junks