Every day, millions of people in the world rise up full of energy, willing to give their best to achieve their goals, some to their jobs, others they go to the University and many others will sit in front of their computer to write the best publication in Steemit.
Regardless of the activity you do in your day, there is a condition that is invisible, can not be felt, is abstract, and when it is not present, it will surely go very wrong. Know what it is? Simple, it's confidence.
Yes, trust, ¿do not you think? So, I invite you to do the following mental exercise:
Imagine that you get up in the morning, go to the bank to refinance the mortgage on your house, the executive, who always guided you, tells you that the bank does not trust you, he he does not trust his responsibilities, his promises of payment, and he will not refinance the debt, there will be no more credits, then they will execute the mortgage and they will be homeless.
Then you go to work, obviously you're late, since you've spent a lot of time and energy asking for credit, and you're 40 minutes late, and the boss does not believe in the excuses, then you get a wake-up call from your boss, but even in 30 days you will run out of your house, then try a desperate bet and ask for money from a partner, but unfortunately, nobody wants to lend you, nobody trusts you.
Then you go to university, and when you enter classes you are without energy, without strength to be there, you immediately realize that you have to turn in an assignment in
team, quickly request your
your colleagues, please join me, in some of the teams, with the firm promise that for the next activity you accept to work twice, but none of them accept, because it never fulfills its promises.
Then I ask you again, ¿is it important for people to trust you? ¿Do you have any questions?, perfect, imagine that you write a publication in Steemit, now, answer me with sincerity. ¿Do you think the Stemianos will read you if they do not trust what you write? I really doubt it.
Definitely trust is one of those elements that seems insignificant, but when it's missing, the consequences are fatal. ¡True!
¿Do you recognize the importance of building trust in your family, work and/or friends to achieve success?
If you manage to build trust in your circles, of course you will be close to success, but ¿how do you get that confidence? Simple, I will give you a simple but powerful strategy to build trust.
The trust is linked directly with:
a) Integrity,
b) Honesty,
c) Credibility and
d) The sincerity of a person.
That is, if you manage to generate trust in others you would be projecting an image of a pure soul and always your words tell the truth, worthy of climbing vertiginously in everything that you undertake
¿Would you like it? Of course.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
So, here's the strategy:
It is very normal for your colleagues and / or university to ask for help to carry out an activity, be very careful with what you commit, before committing yourself internally ask the following questions:
¿Will I have time?
¿Will it be that I have the availability to carry out the activity? and finally,
¿I can do it?
Recuerde que la idea es generar confianza en usted, pero si lo hace y luego no cumple, será condenado a una imagen de irresponsabilidad, y eso es negativo y una imagen muy poderosa, donde la gente no olvida las promesas incumplidas.
¡PRECAUCIÓN!
Lo más corrosivo para construir la confianza son las críticas, no endulce la acción de la crítica con palabras: es lo que hago por ti.
Avoid criticizing your colleagues and/or university, never launch a criticism, remember that your criticism does not stop being your opinion, and you have the right to express it, in a certain way, but the other person also has the right to follow their advice or not, that is why it tries that the person does not feel that you are oppressing her.
All individuals carry out their actions convinced that they are well, since they are the ones who do it, and the least they want is to be judged, that is, they never judge your colleagues, since it would generate an image opposed to trust, which is rejection. ¿You want that? Not true!
Be permanent, constant and persistent in what you think, promise and fulfill, that is, you unify your words with your actions, if you express a position, that your actions are consistent with what what you promised
Gerene enough confidence in your circles, remember never to criticize, not judge, and always your words must become actions, the idea is to internalize and practice daily with all the other people who they are around you, and you are ready to walk towards success.
¡What are you waiting for!
