Stop waisting years searching for who you are. Start spending years creating who you want to be.
Earn it. It will not be given to you.
Stop dreaming about it and make it a goal. Define your goals.
Take actionable steps towards it. Don't overcomplicate things.
Find root causes of stress and limits. Could be mental or outside influences.
Only attempt to change what you can. Focus more on changing yourself its the best thing you can control.
Ask for help or seek knowledge. Provide help when asked, if possible, and share the wisdom.
Don't seek happiness. Do good and you will be happy.