When someone takes a negative situation and changes it into a positive situation, that is not ignorance and it is not a distraction. That take a lot of some serious inner work to change, to change their perspective. They now survey can see the bigger picture. When you see the bigger picture you see the truth.
Being stuck in a negative situation keeps you always negative.. It takes some serious will power and determination to look at the positive in it.
See every situation as a challenge to overcome and learn, to look forward to the negatives as much as to the positives because with that mindset.. positivity is going to be the outcome.
After a while of doing so every negative situation will have you seeing it as a positive because you are aware of the possibility of the outcome.
Takes work to change your perception and many hard lessons... But it's the work that changes the situation.
Live your life.
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