What do you really want?
Right to choice?
Or right to freedom from criticism of choice?
No, they’re not the same thing.
We should be readily accorded the first, a freedom to do as we deem fit; a freedom to make decisions and stick by them.
But it isn’t fair or logical to expect your choices to be ignored and unquestioned.
Questioning choices isn’t limiting choices.
You are however welcome to make the argument that questioning your choice is influencing you...