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A few days ago I was on instagram looking at random people's stories, when suddenly I came across someone sharing a rather curious post.

It was about Red Flags; a term that became popular some time ago in social networks to identify the bad signs that showed that someone was not good for you. As a result, an astonishing number of users and people made known their appreciation of red flags in their environment.

Red flags in your partner, in your best friend, in your family, in almost anything. But I had not until now come across red flags in your relationship with you.

I've been a person who admits to loving myself. But as I started reading each red flag,

I couldn't help but wonder what kind of love is this where I hurt myself and treat myself badly?
It's hard to admit, but my most toxic relationship is the one I have with myself.

And I'm supposed to be the person who loves me the most in the world?

If so, why am I doing this to myself?

Why did I minimize what I feel or disapprove of being complimented?
Why do I have this need to tell myself that I don't deserve the good things that happen to me, and I attribute it to luck? why do I hinder my growth process, say I am not enough or good enough for what I do?

"How modest you are!" some say.

And I wish it was modesty and not my mind accustomed to bad thoughts about me.

To the point of blinding myself in them.

Someone told me "Don't listen to your mind, listen to others."

And one of the most repeated advices in my life is to never pay attention to what others say about me.

But even the opinion of "others", is gentler than my own.

My mind became my greatest enemy, and I become aware until so late.... that the credit for all the good things in my life, were denied from me to me.

I would like to know why the person who loves me the most in the world, does this to me?

And you probably wonder that too.

Look at your relationship with yourself, and ask yourself, every time you disrespect yourself, or treat yourself poorly.

Why am I doing this to myself?

There is no valid reason... love yourself. Because, remember, your mind, your thoughts can lift you up, or otherwise, bring you down.

And remember the phrase Gay Sensei said to Rock Lee as he watched him train, almost on the verge of tears.

"All effort is useless, if you don't believe in yourself."

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