Recientemente, compart铆 un contenido relaciono al placer; sin embargo, no me enfoqu茅 tanto al plano personal, m谩s bien lo desarroll茅 a t铆tulo general. Es por esa raz贸n hoy estar茅 escudri帽ando dentro de mi ser para descubrir que me ha estado generando placer en los 煤ltimos tiempos.
Respondiendo a @mosa71, para m铆 el placer es parte de todo el Bienestar que sentimos y que buscamos. A medida que vamos creciendo, la manera de sentir placer va cambiando, mientras era ni帽a el placer m谩s grande para m铆 era reunirme con mis primas y jugar, como soy hija 煤nica a帽oraba los fines de semana para estar en compa帽铆a. Luego aprend铆 a sentir placer estando en soledad.
En los 煤ltimos a帽os, me he dedicado m谩s a m铆, a mi crecimiento personal y espiritual, he hallado nuevos motivadores de placer y esta iniciativa me hace recalcar que unos de los principales motivadores es mi hogar, mi casa propia, las cuatro paredes y el techo a mi nombre. Mi casa es ahorita, el lugar m谩s placentero para m铆.
Para que entiendan la importancia, siempre viv铆 en casa de mi madre bajo sus reglas y sus 贸rdenes. Me cas茅 a los 18 a帽os y me fui por un periodo muy corto de tiempo hasta que tuve que regresar. Luego en dos oportunidades m谩s intentamos hacer nuestra vida aparte y en seis meses o antes ya andaba de regreso. Cuando estaba embarazada estuvimos a punto de alquilar un apartamento y el due帽o, al percatarse de mi estado, se neg贸 a continuar con el contrato. Era 茅poca en que se promov铆a directa o indirectamente la expropiaci贸n y las viviendas eran un blanco f谩cil. Agradezco a mi madre todas las veces que me recibi贸 y lo sigue haciendo.
As铆 que me vi en la necesidad de hacer espacio para mi hija que estaba por nacer, en la misma habitaci贸n que yo ocupaba en casa de mi madre. Vivir con ella afecto la relaci贸n con mi hija, m谩s de una vez me desautoriz贸 y opinaba sin que le preguntara. Tambi茅n debo reconocer que fue de ayuda, pero pagu茅 un alto precio. Ten铆a presente que no era mi casa y si en alg煤n momento lo olvidada, me lo recordaba.
Hace nueve a帽os conoc铆 a mi compa帽ero de vida y en diciembre celebraremos seis a帽os de feliz matrimonio. Tenemos un hogar propio donde me siento libre de hacer y deshacer a mi antojo. Hemos formado un hogar y me llena de un inmenso placer despertar cada d铆a en esas cuatro paredes, algo de suma importancia es que mi hija tambi茅n tiene su espacio y con privacidad.
All铆 realizo las actividades que m谩s estoy disfrutando y las que producen aumento de placer en esta etapa de mi vida. Escribo para Hive, me dedico a la lectura de autoayuda y otros t铆tulos de provecho, me instruyo, cocino para mi familia, invito a mis amigos y familiares para compartir desde una taza de caf茅 hasta unos tragos con parrilla los fines de semana, medito, hago ejercicios (un poco por ahora), veo programas de televisi贸n. Estar en mi casa me llena por completo. Esto no quiere decir que no disfrute las salidas, me encanta pasear.
Del mismo modo, me es placentero ayudar a los dem谩s, aportar un granito de arena para crear un bien a quien lo necesite. Con frecuencia doy un aporte de alimentos a los trabajadores de la residencia (limpieza, jardiner铆a, vigilancia), aunque perciben un sueldo, la inflaci贸n lo desvanece y s茅 que no les alcanza ni para cubrir los gastos b谩sicos en sus hogares.
Me da placer hallar nuevas iniciativas en @holos-lotus que me ayudan a redescubrirme y contribuyen para lo que quiero conseguir en mi segunda vida, tambi茅n asistir a los p贸dcast de #ElArtedeVivir y #EncuentrosdeBienestar. Es una recarga de buena vibra donde todos los asistentes andamos en el mismo barco. Igualmente, es un placer apoyar a los compa帽eros de la plataforma, dejar un comentario, demostrando lo mucho que disfrute de su contenido e impulsando su talento para que otros puedan visualizarlo, disfrutarlo y aprovecharlo.Equivalentemente, gozo al leer que mi contenido ha gustado y en ocasiones estoy contribuyendo para ayudar e incentivar a otros a lograr sus objetivos.
Brindarle una educaci贸n universitaria y de calidad a mi hija me ba帽a en placer. Aportar para su futuro, observar lo dedicada y responsable que se ha vuelto, no tiene precio, Est谩 agradecida y complacida por la carrera elegida y para el pr贸ximo a帽o con el favor de Dios, estaremos celebrando su primer logro a ese nivel. Verla convertida en una profesional florecer谩 mi recompensa, ya que ser谩 el inicio de un per铆odo por explorar.
Gracias por otra oportunidad para expresar mi sentir y favorecer mi aprendizaje.
Deseo invitar a @zuyimar y
@daimar07 para que nos compartan sus placeres.
Las im谩genes son propias y las ediciones las realice en Canva con la versi贸n gratuita.
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Recently, I shared a content related to pleasure; however, I did not focus so much on the personal level, rather I developed it in a general way. It is for that reason that today I will be searching inside my being to discover what has been generating pleasure for me in recent times.
Responding to @mosa71, for me pleasure is part of all the Well-being we feel and seek. As we grow up, the way we feel pleasure changes, while I was a child the greatest pleasure for me was getting together with my cousins and playing, as I am an only child I longed for weekends to be in company. Then I learned to feel pleasure being alone.
In recent years, I have dedicated myself more to myself, to my personal and spiritual growth, I have found new motivators of pleasure and this initiative makes me emphasize that one of the main motivators is my home, my own house, the four walls and the roof in my name. My home is now the most pleasurable place for me.
Just so you understand the importance, I always lived in my mother's house under her rules and orders. I got married at the age of 18 and left for a very short period of time until I had to return. Then on two more occasions we tried to make our lives apart and in six months or sooner I was back. When I was pregnant we were about to rent an apartment and the owner, upon noticing my condition, refused to continue with the contract. It was a time when expropriation was promoted directly or indirectly and housing was an easy target. I thank my mother for all the times she took me in and still does.
So I had to make room for my daughter, who was about to be born, in the same room I was living in at my mother's house. Living with her affected my relationship with my daughter, more than once she overruled me and gave her opinion without being asked. I must also admit that it was helpful, but I paid a high price. I kept in mind that it was not my home and if at any time I forgot, she reminded me.
Nine years ago I met my life partner and in December we will celebrate six years of happy marriage. We have a home of our own where I feel free to do and undo as I please. We have formed a home and it fills me with immense pleasure to wake up every day in those four walls, something of utmost importance is that my daughter also has her space and privacy.
There I carry out the activities that I am enjoying the most and those that produce increased pleasure at this stage of my life. I write for Hive, I read self-help and other useful titles, I educate myself, I cook for my family, I invite friends and family over for a cup of coffee and drinks with a barbecue on the weekends, I meditate, I exercise (a little for now), I watch TV shows. Being at home fills me up completely. This is not to say that I don't enjoy going out, I love to walk.
In the same way, it is a pleasure for me to help others, to contribute a grain of sand to create a good for those who need it. I often give a contribution of food to the workers of the residence (cleaning, gardening, security), even though they receive a salary, inflation makes it disappear and I know that it is not even enough to cover the basic expenses in their homes.
It gives me pleasure to find new initiatives in @holos-lotus that help me to rediscover myself and contribute for what I want to achieve in my second life, also attending the podcasts of #ElArtedeVivir and #EncuentrosdeBienestar. It's a good vibe recharge where all attendees are in the same boat. Equally, it's a pleasure to support fellow platformers, leave a comment, showing how much I enjoy their content and boosting their talent so others can visualize, enjoy and take advantage of it. Equally, I enjoy reading that my content has been liked and sometimes I am contributing to help and encourage others to achieve their goals.
Providing my daughter with a quality college education gives me great pleasure. To contribute to her future, to observe how dedicated and responsible she has become, is priceless. She is grateful and pleased for her chosen career and next year, with God's favor, we will be celebrating her first achievement at that level. Seeing her become a professional will blossom my reward, as it will be the beginning of a period to be explored.
Thank you for another opportunity to express my feelings and further my learning.
I would like to invite @zuyimar and
@daimar07 to share their pleasures with us.
The images are my own and the editions were made in Canva with the free version.
I use the translator Deepl