They said they're soul mates, they're meant to be together.
They didn't exist before their parents gave birth to them. What's their proof they were meant to be?
Meant to be means something or someone had an intent for them to be. Is that how the world works?
Is that how love works?
The big question is, are there things meant for you and things not meant for you?
I only arrived at this question this morning because I was stuck in my thoughts for a few seconds. Pondering over why some good things happen to bad people and bad things happening to some good people.
It's almost as if there's no moral judge as they claim in the religious setups. Or maybe there is, and I'm not intelligent enough to see the signs of his or her handy works.
But that's not the main question.
There are certainly things not meant for you no matter how hard you attemp to work to get it.
You could earn it, you could steal it, but it'll still prove to you, when you finally have it, that it was not meant for you.
So you want an example?
Someone else's prescription medication. You could tell the doctor " Doc, I want his prescription".
The doctor will tell you "sir/madam" this is not good for you.
Then you say "Mr Doctor, I have money enough to buy your hospital and you and the freaking FDA if I feel like it"
"Yes Sir/Madam, but when you die, you can't pay to resurrect" It's simply not meant for you.
Clearly another person's Hive Keys is not meant for you. If it ends up with you, it was either a mistake from the owner or a well calculated mission you took to get what was not yours.
There are so many things I can fill this page up with of things that is not meant for you.
But somethings are much complex. You know when it's your car and you know when it's not your car, you didn't buy that car.
But when we look at love and compatibility, when we look at a high paying job that could make you miserable, a business partner you really don't trust but is good at what he does, a friendship based on usefulness and not genuine connection and the craziest of them all...
A responsibility meant for someone else.
You might look like the hero when your parents stop taking care of your siblings and you, the teenager, has to do it by yourself because parents want to be irresponsible.
See a need, feel a need.
But not all needs are your responsibility. Out of the kindness of your heart, you take it upon yourself.
I'm still in a state of confusion as to what conclusion to draw on this dilemma, and I'll ask people before I ask AI.
