Loveth, listen!. I am not saying that you must get married to a stupendously rich man but at least, show some level of seriousness when chosing a man at this stage of of your life. You will be 28 next month and you are not growing younger. You should be talking about a man that can sponsor what it takes to marry you and take care you afterwards.
Loveth cuts in;
Dad, I love Charles and I believe things can turnaround sooner than expected and everything will be fine.
Love alone can't do it. Bring a man that has a job and can marry you and take care of you. This is all I demand from you. That's all I have to tell you. The dad concluded.
I am doing well financially and I wonder why dad is not understanding. I can take charge of the financial need of Charles and myself after getting married pending when he gets job. Is it a taboo for a woman to serve this role in our land? Why is my father rating money ahead of a true affection called love.
My father insisted that I can't get married to you because of your present financial status. He said at least, you should get a job before talking of marriage. I am sad and confused.
After a moment of silence, Charles replied;
"Since you are confused, go by your father's advice. He doesn't want you to come and suffer with me.
These words were coming out with tears in his face.
Don't talk like that. You know I love you. I have a suggestion base on the thrust I have in our relationship - said Loveth.
"I am listening" responded Charles.
As you are aware that I am relatively earning well from my work, I wish to save in the next one year for our traditional wedding. Once we do that, we will start our marital journey and do the remaining aspect of the wedding whenever we have the resources. The traditional wedding is the most important. I'll inform my father that you've gotten a job so that our friendship at this stage can gain his approval.
I'll not disappoint you. I will always appreciate this sacrifice. Thank you my love.
Don't you like Charles around me at all? Loveth asked her father.
I wish you could settle for someone else. My spirit is not just attracted to that boy. He replied.
Dad, you promised to love me and you have been doing that since I was a child. I brought Charles and you complained of him not having job. I am informing you of a good development now but you are indifferent. Don't you love me again?
I love you my daughter. I am just trying to be a protective father. Your happiness is my concern. I think at this stage, I will accept Charles since you insisted in marrying him.
Charles was introduced by his friend, Johnson into an investment scheme with high return on investment. The ROI was mouth watering. He invested the money in his account with the expectation that the principal with the interest will be withdrawn latest two weeks before the date of the event. John that introduced him to the scheme gave him convincing assurance. Charles planned to make the whole thing a surprise package for his girlfriend and she wasn't informed of anything about it.
"Where will I hide my face? I am disappointed in you. Do you know how far we have publicised this wedding. Some of my relatives from far are around for this event already. What will I tell them? This embarrassment is huge." Loveth said.
"I am sorry. I trusted Johnson ignorantly. Forgive me" Charles pleaded.
"I knew that boy will disappoint you but I never knew he was going to embarrass us as a family. You caused it anyway. How will you save money for a man to use same in marrying you? That's not love but stupidity. I wish this shame is for you alone. You can see now that I wasn't against Charles out of hatred. What an elder see while sitting down, a child may not see it even after climbing a tree. I will call a family meeting and inform everyone."