When it comes to disciplining children, in my personal opinion, rewards are usually much better than punishments. Children do not usually try to continue doing the same thing if they get praised or if they receive a gift or extra playtime when they do something that they ought to do. A rewarded child has the opportunity to feel encouraged, to feel important and to build up their confidence while at the same time strengthening their confidence between them and their parents.
When a child feels important and valued they will be more inclined to stick to a good pattern of behavior when nobody is around them.
Punishment, on the other hand, will probably prevent a child doing a bad action at a time, but it won't do any teaching to the child about why they have been punished. For example, punishments may create a child that is afraid of being caught, one that despises their parents and creates the kind of situation that they try not to be punished so to keep this from their parents. A rewarding parent will help their child to feel special and loved; a punishing parent will generally do the opposite. But punishment has its place: any child who misbehaves, especially if he has put himself and other children into risk should receive a punishment as he learns about Responsibility; that punishment should not consist in making the child suffering but only to be sure that they understand what consequences of their behavior entails.
Therefore, no award or punishment can take place without another, we have got to have the balance.
I would say that in a way of near perfect upbringing a loving guiding role that relies mainly on rewards and a very occasional punishment. Encouraging a child to grow into the responsible person that society expects can also be found within awards; however children need guidance on rules so that they know right from wrong; hence why punishment does have its place when used in moderation to maintain the limits for the child's own safety and guidance. A reward is more helpful in the teaching of how a person will benefit if they have followed a good code of conduct; this teaches empathy, good will and good decision making skills whereas punishment will usually result in negative traits such as defiance and bitterness towards the punisher.
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