There are many people around us, there are many voice's among us but not all people around us and not all voices for us. Not everyone is serious with us. But we need to live the life as it is. We can't blame about people behavior around us because it's their behavior and we can't control them.
Many people around me as my family, siblings and parents. But i think there's few people in my life who there to listen to me. I've my mom who always there to listen to me, she pays attention to my words and listen to me carefully and then adviced me too in many cases. Many incident in life which are even hard to explain to parents too just like we can't share our each problems to them as they don't deserve to take too much tensions about us.
The problems of my life which I don't want to share with my parents too are the words which can't be listed by anyone even not with my mother too. But in such cases i said to her that keep praying for me and then she listen to my silent and knows that now she's not in the mood of speaking or sharing as she's too much understanding for me.
After my Mom, I've a friend in my life who is not only with me in my happiness but also in my difficult time to listen because many times there's something which we need to hide from parents then we need a friend in our life to listen us in our good and bad moments. And I'm blessed to have her in my life as she's in my life more then decades as it's the friendship of almost 13 years or maybe more.
I don't know if I'm a good listener because other people can define it in more accurate way especially the people who knows me. But i try to listen to the people especially when there's no one to listen them because sometimes just by listening to others relief their stress and problems. I don't know about man but girls are different as they can lessens the burden of their problems just ny sharing to other so in that case yeah I listen to others.
I think if i can't do anything for them but i can listen to them, because if someone came towards me because he/ she has trust on me to share their stuff to me and i noticed that by sharing or telling problems to other we feel good. But i only said during the listening like yeah, hmm, huhhh , okay because it's their turn to speak and i need to stay silent.
That's all for today and it's my entry in this week hive learner contest in #hl-exclusive for the topic of the #hl-w198e1.
