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28th June 2022.

“Courage is not the absence of fear but rather the triumph over it”

~Nelson Mandela

This past few months have been very “enduring” for me and when I say this I don’t mean just because of the bullish or anything of that sort- I mean that is part of the pain a little bit but that is not the bigger part. For personal reasons I can’t say what it is exactly because I don’t like to put my business out here like that but all I can say is I am really thankful that I am still standing.

Truth is sometimes the world beats you down so bad that you might need more than courage to get up and move on. I know quite a few number of people in my active reading audience might be wondering why I don’t write “happy-articles” or “motivational articles” these days. Well two reasons .. 😂

-I am not feeling motivational
-And I don’t write what I don’t feel.

I recently saw a funny video a while back and it was very funny but at the same time it was very up-lifting. Now in this said video a lady was giving anti-motivational advices or speeches whatever you might call it. It was something of this sort ..

“No one has the power to ruin your day because you would ruin it yourself anyways” or words like “be yourself everyone else out there is an idiot” or “everything happens for no reason it’s just happing, there is no reason for it”

quote source:- check out this video to see the full thing.
It was funny to me because in the beginning she pointed out that they are too many motivational speakers out there today. Videos, quotes, movies and all that and that maybe what we should be doing is creating a balance so she is taking it upon her self to create that balance by “de-motivating”( If this is even a word yes it is “demotivate”)..her audience to balance up so much motivations they have been getting everyday.

It is a funny thing to do considering the fact that motivations are very helpful in life you know but in some weird way she actually motivated me. Now I am not saying this is work for everyone but it did work for me.

Where am I going with all these you may ask right?. Well my main point is to find the courage to move on from all the adversities of life. You are scared I know life is hard forget motivations or not the main thing is to keep moving.

I would like to add that the day I saw the video I was feeling reluctant and unmotivated but after that video it suddenly felt energized and ready to put-in my day’s work. I sent it to a friend turns out it helped her too. So no matter how scared or how tired you are always find a way to motivate yourself everyday.

To help you even more-if nothing motivates you just think of the fact that you are alive and as long as you are alive nobody knows what good things tomorrow holds for you.

I** use to do a little trick when I was younger. Whenever I got a 98 in a test or exam I would be sad but then i would go back and glance through my previous exams where I scored 100% and I would be amazed as to how awesome I was by scoring the perfect score and immediately that feeling kicks in. I would forget that was even sad about some exam that I didn’t get 100%. And what is most effective about this is that it strategically puts my state of mind in a place where it wants to potential win again - guess what ? It does win every time.**

So if you need to be scared at first, then be scared but process it quickly and move on with your life. Don’t let anybody tell you that “life is like a tree you can pluck money from it”. Be your own motivation it is much more simpler and effective these way.

Honestly I didn’t have much to say today I just got on here open the “write a new article” tab and just wrote. Simple that’s how life should be. Thank you for reading by the way and have a great day ahead.

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