There are times we will ask ourself is we are truly stingy. Does not given people money make me stingy? Well this question I have asked myself one way or the other and my answer is no, I am not stingy at all.
Money is not really easy to earn, there was a time I went to one of my uncle to help me out financially. He promised to help and asked me to come in two days time. I went there but he couldn't give me any money, he was just complaining about how those that want to give him money did not show up.
Since then I hate that uncle. Now to the present, my younger sister asked me for money but I couldn't give her. I have that money she asked me but it have been budgeted, I have what I want to use the money for and can't be delay.
I flashback to the day I went to my uncle and why I hate him and I feel guilty immediately, now putting myself in his shoes I know it is not really easy.
The People you are asking for money have their own responsibilities to carry. Someone will use like five month to make a savings that already have purpose and someone who doesn't know how hard you try before saving that much will come and ask you for money and if you didn't give, they will started calling you name.
Money is not easy to find and it is also not easy to give people if it is not enough, Not given people money when they ask for it doesn't make me stingy, I'm just being cautious not to be stranded after giving out all that I have. I hope I can have enough money that I can use for my personal use and be able to help anybody in need.
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