Lovely morning to you all
Hope we all had a good night? There are shocking and funny revelations that i have seen, but truthfully i have never regreted seeing any except for one.
everybody has secrets, and we keep them for our own reasons, secrets are no longer secrets when someone already knows about it, regardless of how they come to know, even if you told them yourself
i have uncovered so many secrets accidentally, like when I discovered that a boy i have always seen as a saint and gentle person in my church is into charms, i wasn't told by anyone, i stumbled into it accidentally, it is good to trust people but be ever ready for surprises because people are not what they seem to be.
i have had so many shocking Revelations about people and not regret knowing any, with the exception of one, i didn't regret knowing this secret at first but i later realize that every discovery has a burden, especially the one that involves two people.
This was not a revelation or a secret i discovered myself, someone told me something about themselves that i wouldn't have known otherwise if they had not told me, but i later regret knowing about it but not at first,
My ex-girlfriend, who we are in a very serious relationship muster the courage to tell me that when she was in her 200level she was raped by someone she trusts with her life, someone who she sees as her brother, because he always looks out for her, not knowing he habours bad intensions towards her.
when she told me i was shocked, and at the same time sympathetic, i admired her sincerity and bravery, after that we dated for months without any problems or hiccups but we later drifted apart and we both went our separate ways, but the most annoying part of the break-up is that whenever she sees me talking with my friends, especially when we are laughing about something one of us said and she happens to be around, she would call me aside and start to question me about what we were discussing, because she thinks i may have told my friends about her secret and that we are laughing at her, what a ridiculous mindset!
I didn't coerce or force her to tell me anything, she told me of her own freewill, and we both parted on good understanding, we didn't quarrel, so why would you have the impression that i am snitching on you, something you have never seen me do before,
i think we shouldn't do certain things for love, especially when you are not married to the other person yet, like tell your partner a secret about yourself, a secret you are not comfortable sharing with anybody, because people come and go, the person you think will stay in your life may not last for two months in your life, so be careful what secret you tell people,that is the only discovery i regret knowing about.
