Communication is key and very vital in every relationship. I mean, that is the only way to genuinely express yourself and get to know your significant other better. Communication, then understanding. The cause of most divorce cases is lack of understanding, coming from the inability to communicate well.
What most people don't understand is this, communication isn't necessarily verbal, there are other simpler and easier ways of communicating other than talking (save those who find it hard to open up). Those who know these tricks know how to use it well and know the direction to which the relationship is going.
Again, I'm addressing guys. On my previous blog; "how to win her heart" ., I gave a few steps on how to win her attention and love, but it's harder when you don't understand some body signals she sends. You're confused, does she or does she not want you?
Body language, a type of non-verbal expression or communication that comes in forms of facial expressions, body posture, gestures, eye movements, touch and use of space. I'm going to give a brief example on body languages that affect both genders.
When you are trying to explain something that's true, you use frequent hand gestures. I bet you didn't know that.
But when you lie, you stammer, can't keep eye contact with whom you're lying to and your toes fringe
You sigh when you feel relieved
You roll your eyes when you're being nagged
And the beauty of this is, it's just like involuntary actions, you don'think about it before you act it out.
In Order to help you guys out, there are a few things you'd notice about a girl who's giving you green light, even when she doesn't know she's doing it.
SO IF SHE LIKES YOU...
Her whole body is tuned towards yours. When sitting on a couch together, her body would be facing yours, toes towards you. Shows she's comfortable with being close to you.
She maintains strong eye contact, she wants you to notice her. This is a strong sign boys.
I didn't notice this until...I lick my lip and toss whatever weave I have on, play with my hair and even arch my back when ever boo is around. I sent him these signals, i didn't even know I was doing this, but smart sharp guy recognized and took advantage. Ever notice these? You're getting her to the spot man.
My cousin took this girl out on a date, he had to make a good impression so he focused more on her face than her other boisterous features. He could have sworn when he turned to wave at a friend, she adjusted her tube dress, pouted out her lip and leaned in on him from across the table so he could notice her. She was preening. If she doesn't like you, she wouldn't let you see as much as her shoulder. Most girls let down a side of their shirt, showing off a shoulder of fresh layer of skin, its a sign. She wants you!
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She brings up conversations,pronouncing her words with rhythm.... she wants to get to know about you more. She will even laugh at your jokes whether it is dry or not. She uses any given opportunity to touch you, even go as far as mimicking you. You swallow, she does the same. You smile, she smiles. You take a sip, she follows suit. You look a direction, her eyes go there too. You've succeeded in capturing her heart.
SEDUCTION. You heard me, seduction. When you see a crossed leg towards you not away from you, notice her leaning in, swinging her hips, change in her tone or pitch.....you got it right there. When she walks away from you, she looks over her shoulder to give you one last glance, winks or smiles...you don't need any other kind of assurance.
WHEN SHE DOESN'T LIKE YO AT ALL
If you are very sensitive, this will be harsh, but her replies will be nothing but blunt. Not that it's intentionally done, but getting through a conversation will be hard. Her arms folded, barely looking at you and facing you....you don't got her at all.
She tells you directly or indirectly. She will almost sing it to your ears every time that you're just her friend. You been friend zoned man. You won't be getting out of there in a loong time.
Try having a conversation with her...she won't sit close to you, won't even expose a layer of skin (not even her neck), or give you eye contact. She's not even answering your questions, or being inquisitive and she even yawns?! just forget it.
Note; these actions are involuntary, she doesn't even know she's doing any of these things, it just comes out natural.
Tonight, i'd be posting the same article but on the male gender instead. Hope you liked. leave a comment
