在"得到-馬徐駿"專欄閱讀到一段有意思的內容,是關於"不安全感"的文章,個人摘要如下。
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不安全感,通常來自於對自我的懷疑、覺得自己不如別人、表現的不夠好..等等。想要將此感覺消掉的話,你可以嚐試如下方法:
- 給自己灌輸一些預期結果,比如告訴自己,不管我做的怎麼樣,總有人不喜歡或有人做得比我好,比我聰明..等等。
- 然後將這些話對自己重複說個100遍,一開始你的感受會不好!重複幾遍後,你會漸漸覺得很無聊...很無聊...很無聊...很無聊...很無聊...很無聊...很無聊...
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看出"重點"了嗎?..........就是這感覺!
很無聊