It's like a trend or something; Everyone wants to be offended. Everyone wants to be a victim. What happened to those days where everyone wanted to be the superhero that saved the day? Not the dying, miserable person in the corner who is struggling in every area of their life.
Note: This post is mostly referred to those that use every hardship they have to drain their lives and make excuses for why they can't do anything.
This sucks, That sucks. The whole world sucks, Your life sucks!
Everyone can complain all day, We all have SOMETHING to complain about! But at the end of the day, Guess who cares? Nobody. When you complain a ton, You become a negative person. Which most people tend to avoid.
People love problem solvers, Instead of thinking, Dang it sucks my lawn keeps growing back. Instead, come up with solutions! Can you replace it with rocks? Can you pay the neighborhood kid to mow it for you?
Solutions are so much better than mindless complaining.
When we are children, It's so easy to say that “one day I'll be a millionaire. I'll own ten unicorns” and what not.
We spend our lives subconsciously thinking that “break” is coming, The thing that will change our life forever. But here is the problem with that, It's not happening.
No one's going to hand you what you “think” you deserve.
And no matter how long you play the victim card, It's not coming. Get off your butt and do something.
Everyone's life sucks. Everyone has had a million bad things happen to them. You aren't special or unique in that sense. Some people got a little luckier than others, Whether they were born in a slightly easier country, Or have the resources to do things.
Bad things don't discriminate. It happens to good and bad people. I'm not saying you should pretend they never affected you, or that you shouldn't' care. But try and beat those “odds.” Overcome the obstacles that life has thrown at you. Instead of thinking “Oh poor me” Think I'll show them/That/It.
You are more robust than they are. #
I see that with people who beat cancer. Despite the horrible experience of cancer, They thrive and try to make a difference. They don't spend all day thinking “Why did it happen to me? “ They kick butt in life.
You can do that too! Be grateful for what you have, And stop being the victim.
