Having a mentor and role model is indeed helpful. Hence, people are encouraged to do so; to have someone they admire for their work, lifestyle and results, emulate them and follow their steps. This is what role modelling and mentorship bring about. It has helped many to achieve what they wanted and desired through the mentorship and role modelling of another person who they looked up to, are influenced, helped and shaped by.
I think it's important to make it clear what role modelling and mentorship mean exclusively. To be a role model, you don't need to have a person come up to you and seek to learn and be taught under you. They watch from a distance and pick lessons from your life that they want to. With mentorship, there has to be a level of connection and an established personal relationship, where you take them under your wings and teach them.
It was necessary to mention that because it's central to what the prompt presents. Can you be a role model? If someone approached you to be a mentor to them, would you accept it? It's a good question. Perhaps, not many people have thought of this, especially if you're in your youthful days. But as one looks up to another as a role model and gives in to the mentorship of another they admire and emulate, they need to understand they will/might be in those shoes.
Thus, making this an important topic. The irony however, is that we're already role models in one way or another. It might interest you to know that there's somebody motivated or inspired by your life or what you do. Even if it's in a little way. Them positioning you in that way in their lives is an expression of role modelling. It can be for what you do, how you dress, how you talk, the way you live, your results spiritually, financially, academically and so on.
There's usually not a personal and intentional effort towards that. Well, except for the fact that you're one who's already conscious of the reality that your life can influence another and someone could be looking up to you, so you do your best to live right. I've heard people say they were surprised to realise that someone has been looking up to them and modelling themself after them. All that happening without their knowledge until they were told.
Even as a child, one can be a role model to other children. So also among adults. As role modelling is considered for something good, it can also be for bad. People have looked up to others doing wrong things and become like them as they were influenced by that which they saw and they admired. It's why people conscious of this consider how they live their lives. You can be a role model without even choosing to be, and it's not during a certain stage of life.
Mentorship however takes intentional effort, beyond a person watching your life and getting influenced and inspired by it. A mentor has the responsibility to personally teach, guide and direct the person. This is where the big answer of accepting or not lies. Is it something I can do? Will I have the time to do that? What does he or she see in me? These are important questions to ask and answer when accepting mentorship; a beautiful but demanding endeavour.
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