We are often fooled that if we miss out on one precious opportunity, Our life will be over and we'll never be able to get the things that we wanted.
Sure, Some of us have those once in a lifetime opportunities that we may or may not be fully aware of. But the reality is, Even if we miss a couple of them. We can usually still get what we want.
Sometimes when something presents it's self it can be hard to take it. It can also be just as hard not to take it.
There are job opportunities, Relationship opportunities, Family and fun opportunities. Opportunities that happen in every area of our lives.
The thing is though, As long as you put yourself out there. And you look for opportunities when needed, You will find them.
Sure, They don't always "pop up" when you want or need them to. But usually getting out there and looking is what will allow you to get them.
The problem with many of our goals, Is there isn't always an end destination. What is your purpose? What is your end goal here? Once you realize exactly what that is. Your brain will automatically look for opportunities once you've failed at something. When something goes wrong, We often assume the worst, And we feel stuck. But the reality is your brain is probably looking for another way. And the more you get yourself out there; The more those opportunities will pop up.
Whenever I feel like there aren't enough opportunities in front of me, I'll read a new book, Take an online class. Go to the zoo. Or just do something to break the routine. Often the problems I'm dealing with are hiding in my subconscious, and they start to find unrelated connections I would never have thought. Sometimes the opportunities are there; We just aren't seeing them. Sometimes this scarcity mindset actually hurts us, Because it encourages us to cling to opportunities that may not be that great for us, Instead of seeking something that is much better. We end up stuck in a situation we don't want to be in, Because we are scared of what will happen if we don't stay put.
