So there was a Facebook group that I was acting as an admin on and the group deals with matters that have to do with love , relationship, conflicts , society , women etc...
So I received some anonymous messages and I want to share it here, maybe you can learn one two lessons from my opinion concerning the cases..
Case 1
"I can't with his jealousy, he mistrusts everything and doesn't give my space"
I believe that excessive jealousy is deadly for a relationship, because if there is no trust, the reality becomes very dominant, full of insecurities and this leads to continuous fights. There is nothing more beautiful than trusting each other.
When there is true love, respect must prevail. "If I love you, I will not do anything that could harm you." I believe that it is important to talk and set the guidelines in the relationship. If nothing is achieved, it would be a dangerous relationship, since an annoying person can do things that he regrets but that later regret is useless
Case 2
"He doesn't want me to work, to be independent, I can't be at home just cleaning, I like having my things but he doesn't understand it"
When a relationship is healthy, one enjoys the growth of the other. When there is submission, it already crosses the limits and becomes an unhealthy relationship. If we really love a person, seeing them grow professionally, financially and emotionally will be a joy.
When one of the two parties wants to dominate and direct the actions of the other, it is an unhealthy relationship. Being financially independent gives us a certain degree of security.
We cannot depend 100% on a person because when she is missing, the results can be catastrophic. I believe that according to the decision of both it is important to support each other in what makes them happy without violating the rights of the other..
Case 3
"How do I forget that I had everything with him/her and now it's over, I really still love him/her."
When a relationship ends, the separation process in some cases is difficult to overcome, but there is something called self-love. If a person wants to be with you no matter how much you love them, you must understand that you must walk away.
Love is not requested, it is something that must flow spontaneously. You cannot force someone to love you, therefore, if the relationship is over, it is best to move away and find a way to heal the wounds. We all have value and when we get the right person, that person notices it and will try very hard to take care of you because he knows you are special.
You will not have to beg for love from the right person, they will love you spontaneously. If the relationship ended it is because it was not going well. Therefore, heal and wait, that at the indicated time the indicated person will arrive with whom you will feel full or complete.