Hi Hive Lovers
One's personality is the result of a long process of practice, and one's childhood is the most important time to shape it.
My personality is the best work that my parents molded me into when I was little, and so is yours and everyone else's, of course.
I directly felt the formation of my personality through my father and mother. They both light up my personality; they are my personality patterns, and they both serve as role models for my personality. I am very lucky to have had them both.
A childhood lesson
I still remember one of the most important things in my life as a kid. When I was in elementary school, it was my first day of school. When I came home from school, I got off the school shuttle vehicle and immediately ran to my door. My father, who was standing in the yard, called me to approach him.
(In the moment, I immediately practiced the meaning of personality.)
With my father's sharp gaze fixed on my eyes, I have understood that it is my father's character when he is very serious. With a deep and authoritative voice, he asked me:
My Dad: "Will you be able to get home if you don't take the school shuttle bus?"
Me: "No," I answered in a low voice.
My Dad: "What makes the school shuttle bus go to your house and the houses of your other friends?"
Me: "That's because the driver has been driving it," I answered quickly.
My dad: "Can the bus run by itself without being driven by the driver?"
Me: "Come on, Dad, that question should be for my little brother, who is still not at school."
My Dad: "No..No..! The driver is a human like you. He has helped you get to your school and back to your home."
Me: "I understand, Dad."
My Dad: "If you understand, why did you turn your back on him and run straight into the house? Even when the bus still hasn't moved to leave."
Me: "I'm sorry, Dad. I'll fix it tomorrow."
That is one example of the valuable lesson my parents taught me. Since that incident, I've never turned my back on someone accompanying me to get somewhere, even when they put a mask on their face and ignored me while I stood waiting for them to leave first.
I will never leave someone who has made me get something.
Parents are someone's main personality. Parents should really understand that teaching without training means failing in your duties as a parent.
Without personality, it's like letting one run wild
Watch someone train their pet and not their children. Then will we choose to tie up our pets and let our children run wild?
We have been trained by our parents, and we as parents must also be responsible for training our children.
Look, lead them.
Turn on their personality.
What do you want your children to become?
It tends to be about their physical health, their school grades, their abilities, and their popularity, but not their character.
… and without a character as a personality, then their health, their best grades, all their abilities and skills, or their popularity—everything is pointless, and their life will run wild.
Suitable for my life, you, and everyone
Do you realize what all the emphasis is on today and for all time?
Look back. How about:
#Honesty, #justice, #courage, #kindness, #generosity, #politeness, #friendliness, #gentleness, #self-control, #humility, #perseverance, #obedience, #order, #patience, #gratitude, #wisdom, and other core values that can be at arm's length can be written here.
Who taught these things?
We have to as parents, right?
A person who has a strong and good personality is something unique and not at all identical from one person to another, even for those who are born twins. But forming it is a process that is not easy and takes a long time, even for their entire lives.
Every personality must be taught and trained in its application; it cannot be done by just reading. The best personality is the one that is formed in someone when they are small; things that are used to become habits will in the end form character and personality.
All the results of the formation of personality are a formula for the existence of one's life. All of these main personality values are universal values that will apply to everyone and remain valid for all time.
If it has been formed, then the personality will be as strong and solid as a rock.
You can enter and be accepted in any environment because of the compatibility and universal applicability of these personality values.
There are always interesting themes as challenges from Mr @galenkp that we can explore according to our own experiences, including in this Week's 166 challenge.