When you don't value yourself, you tend to attract people who support that devalued image of yourself. Cos you tell people how to treat you by the way you treat yourself
Always direct your thoughts to those truths that will build your confidence, hope, faith and love. Turn your mind away from thoughts that inspire fear, sadness, anger and depression. Sometimes the weight to lose is not on your body but on your mind. You are not what you weigh but how you think about yourself.