Greetings, members of the Cent family. Welcome to my blog.
This evening, I want to share my view on what I title when love leads.
To some people, love is when your spouse or fiancé gives you something, and to other people, it is when they communicate with you often.
I did not plan to write on this any time soon, but something happened a few days ago, and that made me understand that some people replace emotions with love. Some cannot differentiate between the two, and that is why some young people are having problems in their relationships and marriages.
A few days ago, I went to a mini market inside my school to do binding .so when I arrived there, I saw the owner of the place. I greeted him and he welcomed me.
He offered me a seat and I sat down. He asked me what I wanted him to do for me, and I told him. So, as he was trying to do the binding a guy who stood beside him came to where I was and sat close to me.
I greeted him, and he responded. Before I knew it, he started asking me certain questions, and I responded politely. The conversation was getting more interesting till it was time for me to leave.
So when I was about to leave, he pleaded that I should give him my contact. But I told him I'm not always comfortable with that, he kept insisting, so I had to give it to him.
So when I reached home, he called and I responded. So after three days, he chatted me up and told me he loves me so much.
I was surprised because this is someone who does not know anything about me. I was wondering how possible it was to just love someone just like that.
So I wanted to be convinced that he knew what he was actually saying. After thanking him, I had to ask him the questions that I had in mind to ask him.
I asked him what made him love me, and he said it was my beauty and the way I responded to his questions the day we met.
I laughed out loud. I asked him if beauty and the conversation were his purpose for loving me, and he said yes.
He said, from the way he sees me, I will be his wife, and I almost fainted.
See, there are things people need to learn and also know when it comes to emotional things. Do not love someone because she is beautiful and she responded to your chats politely.
And never tell someone you just met that you are sure you people are meant to be with each other.
What comes to your mind when you hear the word love? The word love is more than what we can see. If you say you love someone, how much can you sacrifice just to make the person happy?
What is your purpose for loving that person?
How can you both affect each other's lives positively?
What plans do you have in mind that can help both of you to grow physically, spiritually, and otherwise?
What do you do that can sustain you and the relationship you wish to start?
These were the questions I asked him, and he couldn't answer any.
Loving someone is a beautiful thing, but make sure you know what you're doing. Any love that makes you lose your self-worth is not love.
Know why you actually want the person to be a part of your life, and go for the best.
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