Greetings everyone,
I am going back to my older style of bringing exercises with a tint of a spiritual touch.
I needed a bit of a time off, because of overcoming some of my own fears and limits and step by step i am going beyond them!
This piece will be about changing your view of running from fear to moving towards pleasure.
You wish something?
What do you really like to do? What is crazy enough for you to take the risk?
Why do you want to take the risk for that, but nothing else?
Why do you postpone? Why do you stop yourself? What are you facing that stops you from growing?
These are just a few questions to give you an insight of what can stop you or what can totally motivate you.
But of course this goes way deeper than you may think in first sight. (yet, it can be solved so simple)
Self Love
Accepting and loving for who you are no matter what the world says around you or having a need of security from the outside world is a great start to begin with (in my point of view), because if you think about it, things become not so difficult anymore if you want to go somewhere and it comes from you and you alone!
This is where a lot of things start that are actually healthy going for and having great ideas of where you want to go! etc etc
For the sake of your own existence, which is short enough on this planet GO FOR IT!!!
I can go very technical about this and i can tell you about success etc, but that has no use. Because only you can decide for yourself, only you can choose!
Only you must be willing to choose, hearing that voice or feeling that flame inside of you saying mate, what are you doing? GO FOR IT!
Sometimes people ask advice to others and while giving it they are not following what they are saying into practice. I am not calling them hypocrites, i am more saying LOOK AT YOUR OWN WISDOM!
You hold the answer already!
YOU KNOW WHAT YOU NEED TO DO! FOLLOW IT!
Show with your work, not your words
This is something someone very close to me told me once, show it with your work.
Become a symbol, become an idea!
Show it with your love and dedication, your work and what you leave is who you are!
What you leave behind even if it is not seen as great now, it certainly will be seen in the future, some things takes time and have patience!
Even if you just do 3 to 6 things a day towards the thing you like to do even if it just takes you an hour a day, you still work towards it and you still come closer to your goal.
Best part is, you are not alone. There are always people around you that want to do stuff, you can start together even if you do different things! Help each other build up to the things you want to achieve and nothing seems impossible anymore!
You can motivate each other, support each other and face all issues as well!
Even if you are far away from each other, it does not mean that distance and little time mean something.
It is about the quality you spend together and how it helps you develop and grow!
Eventually pull more people in, work together, create a community and notice how your idea is spreading!
Simply by actions and not words!
Let go of your limits
I cannot do it, i have no time, people find me crazy anyway, i am powerless… etc etc
Why do you think you cannot do it?
I mean who ever told you this? We have our minds and our hearts, we are given with the 2 strongest forces in this universe!Our hearts so that we can love unconditionally and bring out the best of each other for a greater tomorrow.
Our minds so that we can solve every riddle and every puzzle meant for us, from emotional ones till ones that goes even beyond our comprehension!
Weird isn’t it?
We already have the best weapons, the best tools with us! It is only ourselves that limits their powers! (in some cases so called scientific limiting proofs bla bla bla, still nonsence)
We have this insane power!
I have no time
, well this was explained before.People find me crazy anyway…
Simply stated if people around you are like this, then it simply means that those people are toxic for you and do not even fit to be with you!
You have your own symbols that you use in your life and that are effective for you! This does not mean that you are crazy! It means that you use different tools!
Even if you think that ghosts need to eat watermelons (sorry not to long ago watched an old Spongebob video, made me thinking about the moment Patrick throwing a watermelon in Octo his face)
Well if it works for you and lets say you can actually make art or something else out of it, does it matter if people find it crazy?
It works right? It works for you right? So why is it than a problem?
If you feel lonely as well find more people who like the idea of ghosts eating watermelons! Write books about ghosts stealing watermelons etc (ok this is turning Monty Python now).
I mean the idea cannot be crazy enough! Everything is marketable as long as you know the right steps in how to bring it, there is always a public helping you out!
Powerlessness…
Well it is something that we can teach ourselves, most people know probably about that experiment with 2 puppies (i do not like experimenting on animals though) where one gets shocked and the other one not while they try to escape, the one getting shocked eventually gave up escaping and just stopped doing anything.
Then the boxes opened and the one without the shocks went out, but the one that got shocked for trying to escape didn't do anything while receiving the shocks and while the box was open and could escape.
(this was maybe not perfectly from the piece i got it from, was a while ago that i read it)
Point is, powerlessness is self taught, it is something that we teach ourselves to sit where we are in our troubles and misery.
Another example, sometimes i meet homeless people. I give them advice (with some small change if i have it with me, so that they can sleep in the leger des heils) to go get benefit from the government etc.
Up till now, i only had 2 people that were still wanting to change and changed, now living in their own house having a job etc. They made the change, they saw that they could get out of it.
While the others just mumbled and were ok with the situation they were in and did not want to change, most cases by continuing to ask was that they did not believe that they could get out of their situation and were cursed to be in it the rest of their lives!
As you can see even if a part of your life is pure misery, it does not say that you should stay in it! But there is a way out, not only that, but because of it you can thrive on it!
Thriving on your own weaknesses and vulnerabilities?
Hmmm….
I am ashamed of my weaknesses…
The places where you are at your weakest is where you have your greatest strengths!
GO BEYOND PLUS ULTRA!
It may be very very difficult, but the places that we are hiding are the ones that we are actually at our strongest, it is actually so strong that as egoïstic as we are want to keep it for ourselves. I love my personal twisted mind set.
We create shame, to hide away what we think is bad and what we do not want the world to see, yet at the same time our best qualities are hidden in it, it is not without reason why people say that the things we try to hide are actually our biggest lights!
The things that let us shine at our brightest! The thing that also silently make us not giving up, the thing that pulls people towards us.
Yes, our weaknesses are our greatest strengths, our flaws that we are way to conscious off are the things that can let us go beyond!
The best part is as well, everyone actually reflects what they truly feel, even in their fake smile or their angry face. If they attack you, it actually shows that something has been touched that comes too close.
It shows that we are actually trying to hide and we suck at it as well!
Even if you show no emotion, something is behind it.
So what is the use of shame if there are already way to many people able to see through it?
This is just the start!
We are complicated yet simple! This means that a lot of issues can let us wander in for over 20 years, yet the answer can sometimes just be a switch in the frame of mind!
Once the answer is found, repeating is the answer to keep it going! It is one of the greater so called ‘secrets’ on getting things done and continuing the road you need to walk on.
Not just following it, but also becoming to be WILLING to follow it that you want to walk in life!
I hope you all enjoyed this piece and i will write more often again. I sometimes have moments that i go through introspection and that i also am fixing myself.
Told you all, show what you say through your work. My work is getting myself beyond the me that i was ever before! Walking towards my personal aurora!
Create your own dawn, once you have beaten the night, nothing will stop you!