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The sweetness of new love is intense and thrilling. The combination of intellectual discovery, sexual passion, and emotional exploration is a heady mix that often makes both lovers unable to see what is ahead.
Unfortunately, the rapid ascent into this heaven-blending can mask potential relationship threats that can frequently emerge as any relationship matures. Because of too-often-unspoken challenges that both partners may have unwittingly avoided, their blossoming relationship may take a hit about the six-month mark. Unpracticed in recognizing or dealing with unexpected problems, the couple finds themselves unable to cope, and the relationship crumbles under their weight.
Long-lasting relationships have many dimensions, some of which are crucially important in the long run to that specific partnership. Those dimensions must be explored and any emerging conflicts dealt with early in any relationship. As a result, people who fall in love too quickly frequently do not do that crucial relationship work.
When people take the time to do that process well, they want to do whatever is necessary to learn everything they can about each other. Who are the important people in their lives? What do they need to feel loved? What can they give in a relationship? Do they have a guiding principle beyond themselves? What excites them to think about? The authentic answers to these kinds of questions have past, present, and future influence on the potential of the relationship.
When lovers fall in love too fast, they bask in the glow of their new passion and often put aside these explorations to guarantee that magic will stay undiluted. When those initial passions quiet down, as they are wont to do, the motivation to do the hard work simultaneously lessens.
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/rediscovering-love/201712/love-is-easy
