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This is December and this is the period that guys will want to by all means have a problem with their spouse so that they will not have to pay money for hair or buy clothes and other Christmas packages for their girlfriends. My boyfriend doesn’t know I am aware of this, he is trying to cause issues so that I will retaliate and then he will ask us to suspend the relationship for now till after Christmas and new year before we call off the relationship. The gentle man doesn’t want his pocket to shake this December but as the sharp girl that I am I will never let that to happen.
Lately I’ve been noticing some strange kinds of behavior from him and it really got worse this period of December. The thing there is that man didn’t know I am aware of all his tactics to make sure we have a fight this festive period of December.
His attitude surprises me lately because some little things that doesn’t call for yelling and quarreling he will want us to fight and quarrel over those things. It is this period that I got to know my boyfriend doesn’t want me to dress and go out on white dresses at night, I don’t know if he is scared maybe the angels will think am one of them and will decide to take me to heaven along with them or maybe he suddenly has phobia for white who knows? because I don’t get his reasons for all the sudden behavior.
Okey!! What is wrong about him sending me money and me not receiving alert immediately because of the bank network..? Did I commit an offense of not seeing alert of the money he claims to send to my account? He woke up this morning and was yelling on phone that he sent me money and so why didn’t I let him know I saw the alert, I told him I didn’t see the alert and that should be a problem from the bank not from me but he wasn’t interested in what I was telling him instead he did all his quarrelling and hang up the call. Later on after some few hours of the alert quarrelling he called me and told me that his bank reverse the transaction he made and so he is going to send the money again to me, I didn’t try to claim the righteous person because I know his problem of which I will never fall victim of any of them. He sent the money and this time I received the alert so I let him know immediately to avoid another drama.
This festive period I am very ready for him, even if he insults me I am a coward I will tell him “Thank you sir!” if he tells me to seat down here I will, if he tells me to stand up I will, if he says I should stop wearing white dresses not only at night even during the day I will still obey him, it is just the matter of one month I will activate back my crazy girlfriend style to him. He knows normally he won’t walk up to me and tell me not to go out or for instance the alert issue, I would have prove allot of points there but right now, I will be as gentle as a dove.
You all shouldn’t be surprise that if he slaps me I will still hug him and tell him how much I love him and cannot do without him, that boyfriends responsibility that he is trying to run away from this period of Christmas will not work.
So there ladies, don’t fall to their traps. Boys want to break up relationships this festive period so they will not have to spend their money on us but their plans have failed.
You can always count on me for your relationship advice but until next time, take care!!
