Cheating is a Choice, Not a Mistake

At first you thought that you were the happiest couple alive. You would think that you were literally for each other. The way he smile, the way he held your hand, the way he looked at you. It was something out of a fairytale. But what if he cheated on you? What would you feel? How will you react when you caught your partner with someone else?

And so often in these situation, it's shown that the thing we think is "its all my fault". Even if we're the ones who just been cheated on were wondering maybe we're wasn't good enough. Thinking of what we could we've done diffirently?or what is it that they saw in that other person?

The most amazing things is when someone cheats on you reflects so much more of who they are and not so much of who you are. Recognize that them cheating is a reflection of their insecurities. Dont let that amplify your own. And if you cheat on aomeone that is willing to do anything for you, you actually cheated yourself out of true loyalty. Cheating on a good person is like throwing away diamond and picking up a rock.

Cheating is a choice not a mistake. You cheat because you love someone else other than your partner. It may come in different way. Cheating can be really subtle. It doesn't have to be kissing, meeting or getting physical with someone else. As soon as you see yourself deleting those messages to hode them from your partner, you've already started. It may not be cheating yet, but it's planting a seed. And cheater don't think cheating is wrong until they get cheated on.

It's so important to understand this.
"People don't cheat because they don't respect their partners, people cheat because they don't respect themselves".