Insecurity is an inner feeling of being threatened and/or inadequate in some way. We've all felt it at one time or another.
Feeling insecure in a relationship can be awful.
Although there are some relationship insecurities that are totally normal, others can make you wonder if something is wrong with you. If you feel like you're with the right person and that you've done everything you can to build a healthy relationship, the insecurity can be compounded by something else: frustration.
It's hard when you know you don't feel good, but you don't know why. If you're constantly wondering to yourself, "Why am I feeling insecure in my relationship?" with no real answers, it may be time to delve a little deeper.
Here are Questions to ask
●Do I need space and perspective?
●Is my insecurity actually intuition?
●Is my partner doing something I would like them to change?
●Am I comparing my relationship to other relationships?
●Is my insecurity about my partner or myself?
Signs of insecurity
●You have a constant need to check their phone.
●You don't want them to do anything without you.
●You don't want to do anything without your partner
●You put off any conversation that might even be slightly confrontational.
●You find yourself asking about "the Ex" regularly.
●You require constant reassurance that your relationship is solid.
●You find yourself encouraging your partners failure.
●You are constantly accusing your partner of cheating.
Overcoming insecurity
●Stop confusing imagination with reality.
●Avoid the certainty trap.
●Give the relationship room to breathe.
●Stop mind reading.
●For security: seek self assurance.
●Focus on the good.
●Stop comparing current relationship to past ones.
Hope this helps someone out. Enjoy reading