Running away from the consequences
Preoccupied with success linked to achievements, we live in denial of losses. There is talk about the Latin vividness where one of its characteristics is to slip away “get out of the consequences”, the famous “and nothing happened to me”... and at the same time from here, we praise the "1st. World" where one of the most clearly defined things are the consequences of your actions if you transgress the rules...
If as mothers/fathers we exonerate our children from assuming the consequences of their actions, we are exposing them to “entering the victim-victimizer dynamic” the others will always be the ones to blame for what happens, being the victims... it's not my fault, it's the cow's fault.
It makes my hair stand on end every time I hear a mother say, ” They will always be my little boys, no matter how old they are." Will she want to let him grow up? Will you be able to cultivate a healthy relationship with the adult in front of you? Will she let him make his own decisions? So that he stops continuing to run away from the consequences of his actions...
On the other hand, we stop their psychic maturity process by not allowing them to integrate a sense of responsibility. Among many other difficulties...
I think what weighs us down the most today as a country is that no one wants to take the consequences of their actions. The blame is always on the other. We even go so far as to justify, from the “poor thing” to those who are responsible for the violation of the norm, or of value or morality if they are intended to apply some consequence on their actions... not counting how social status, the level of power or political inclinations weigh when making judgments.
We talk about that in this country “there is no justice”, but how we exercise justice in our environments, how we make our morals and values respected, how we act with consistency regardless of who is the violator of the norm, giving everyone what is due
We run wild only for the reward of the positive consequences, of the fact, and we run away from the negative ones. Daring to assume them with dignity, and responsibility allows us to recognize what we are made of, it will give us temperance, and they will always be of great learning.
Either we change our behavior or we change our planet
Certainly, the psychosocial order in which we have lived has conjured the curse of rivalry, competition, and competitiveness among all... There are a lot of ways to unravel, many knots, meanderings, and muddles that we have to keep unraveling, unlocking, and rearranging. And without a doubt, the thorns that must be removed from our souls are painful in order to heal confidence and protect us from hopelessness and vaccinate us against the bitterness of judging respecting the truth.
The moral principle that inclines us to act to do justice
Let us dare to reflect on profound themes that allow us to be the art and part of humanity that we desire. My intuition and wisdom take care of us and protect us from every adversity, thought, deed, and action that could harm each other. May we have the strength and the understanding of divesting ourselves of what has polluted our being in order to conspire against others...
There are experiences that change you forever, let's try to make it for the better, to grow, transcend and transformation...no let the social poison sink in, and follow the path of kindness, evolution, and the key positive to give everyone what corresponds to them.
I don't like the politics of my country, because it has divided more than united... subtract instead of adding... today this publication is not political, today it is a feeling, challenge, sacrifice, truth, and justice because although we are citizens of the world the limitations are our own.
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