People often feel distressed when they are afraid that the people they love and rely on will, for some reasons, leave them when it comes to the worst. You may have heard of the term “A friend indeed” . What are the characteristics of this friend? The ability to understand what you are going through even when you keep mute. The ability to show empathy amidst a terrible situation.
Our emotions and sense of attachment to people we love can cause distress when they move away from us.
It makes one feel like a lifespan has been deducted from one's life.
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The close relationship between people gives rise over time as they get more acquainted to each other there by creating a sense of desire to always keep in touch with each other and this sense of emotion is being compounded in a word called “Attachment". Even Animals kept as pet experience thesame emotions and how they express some crazy habit when ever one is going withouth them.
I could remeber one of my dog then who will always keep a pitty face when ever any of the family members is travelling and in the same manner the way ot expresses Joy over the return of any one is highly sensitive. If animals with lower intellect would express this then what do we say about a full blown human with ever sense of reasoning?
This is a bond that is sometimes very difficult to detach. This can be found in a mother and her infant baby or even between two adults who are into some form of sexual relationships.
A stable emotional base is been established by having a close intimate connection with others. It is in this foundation that an individual builds his or her relaxed mind on the basis of not being disappointed by the person he is attached to. That trust is mostly and commonly found in an infant child and his mother; his trust for her makes him relaxed and feels safe even amidst storms he cries whenever he is taken away from her arms and his or her reactions while he or she is being taken away tells how sweet and how connected this little one is to his or her mother, the child feels threatened when he or she is not in the arms of the mother.
How they run to their mum showing an expression of trust and believe. That single act gives them a relaxed mind over some form of trouble even when the mum knows she is incapacitated in some situations but then she still tries her best to keep that trust by doing all it takes to make sure the infant's emotion is still intact and not tempered with.
That same attachment is what comes in between two adults who are into sexual relationships, how the female partner holds the hands of her male partner which gives her some sense of relief whenever she feels threatened or when she faces some sort of danger.
We struggle not just emotionally but also physically when we find ourselves in an unhealthy relationship.
Keep good relationships maintain healthy relationships as that's the only way you can stay alive with a good working mindset. Keep bad energy far away from you and see you live long as your immune and body system will function properly.
