It's better to avoid controversy

Everyone is different because our personalities are different as well as our thoughts. In several cases, our thoughts can be conflicting with each other, and we can argue because we all have the right to prove our thoughts are better than others. So sometimes arguments are a very common matter.

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There are some people who love to do arguments on a regular basis. They just try to provoke others and start arguments. Again, there are some people who don't love to go for any arguments unless it's necessary, and it's because they don't want to lose the peace of their mind because of arguments. You might be curious to know how I did with such kinds of things.

I belong to that category of people who don't love to do arguments with others because I think most of the time it's a waste of time, and I always try to make my time productive. At least I feel it's good to sleep rather than go for an argument. In my case, who my opponent is is also a deciding factor in going for an argument.

Strangers are strangers, and I have nothing to do with them. I try to keep my distance from them unless I need any kind of help from them, because I fear strangers can be a threat to me. I don't go for arguments with strangers because I think that the argument can't bring any benefit to me, at least from a stranger. But if two strangers go for an argument, I love to listen to their conversation because who knows if I'll get some informative and useful news from them? Why don't I go for an argument with strangers? The answer is very simple, and it's because of not having any benefits from it.

When it comes to relatives, it's almost the same for me. I don't love to go for an argument, but sometimes some words of relatives are very offensive, and they cross the line to provoke me, and in that case, I exchange a few sentences to defend myself and make them clear on my point. I speak less, and they know it well, and a few sentences carry a good weight. Even if they try to cross the line, my few sentences are capable enough to give them a warning about it. But the good thing is my relations with most of my relatives are very good, and it's a reaction to see me making arguments with them. In fact, many want my suggestions in many cases.

If I used to do arguments, then it's with my family members. It's not because I love to do arguments. It's because I think I should correct them if I feel they're doing something wrong or they are on the wrong side. But now there is a little change. Maybe it's because I become more mature with time. Sometimes they are not ready to accept my ideology, and I can understand it after exchanging a few words, and in that case, I stop immediately. Because I know that whatever I am going to say to them is not going to be of any use to them because they are not taking it seriously, and in that case, I just try to preserve my energy. Analyzing a situation and predicting a situations are very easy things for me, but I think none of my family members are ready to understand the same thing from my perspective. In such a situation, I choose to stop arguments because they can affect the bonding between us. So it's better to know when to stop.

Let's talk about the arguments on social media. Naturally, I am not very active on social media, except on the Hive platform. But sometimes I browse Facebook in my free time. In public groups, there are many posts that are controversial. In such a kind of post, I just make a controversial reply. After that, I disappear from there. After one day, when I log in to Facebook, I see there are many replies there. Some people take my side, and some remain against me. I remain absent, and they start an argument with each other. I never reply again because I just enjoy how they do arguments. I just try to create the spark of fire and leave the remaining things to others, and almost every time, there is fire. I am always surprised to see so many foolish people write so many things just for nothing. It's a waste of time.