Everything needs to have a measure Before engaging in a relationship, keep a person in check as much as you can, take care of him as much as you can, look for him regularly.
Maybe after getting involved, you'll lose interest in him, thinking that I'm not afraid to lose him anymore!
But these thoughts are wrong
Because the person who is looking for you every day, clinging to you like a shadow and seeing your interest in him will start to love you.
A man leaves only when he begins to think that he is not good to you, or that his value to you is much lower than before, or that he will be more caring, more loving to you than anyone else.
Because people don't tolerate neglect for long, one day they just turn away, when the bitterness in something goes away, people go away.
There is no benefit in forcing someone who doesn't want to stay. Because if you cry, you can't hold back your tears. If someone wants to go there, how can you stop him?
You may be able to force him to stay close to you, but you will never find that old feeling of love for you, which you have unknowingly ruined.
So even after getting close to the person you love, take care of him as before. Just as you were before getting him, just as much as you used to express love to make him happy, still express love in the same way.
Because if someone comes for love and can't find love for you, then that person will never be with you.
You don't even have to be close to him, when you see that you have started to love a man. You can't find anything from that man now.
So when love is the same, neither less, nor more......