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Never be embarrassed by the time it took you to reach your goal.
Your struggles are what makes you an interesting person today. No one is more boring than someone who was and did everything on a silver platter since birth.
Be proud of what you had to overcome to get where you are.
Detachment doesn't mean you don't care.
It means you don't panic. It means your mind remains clear in spite of the pressure. Being ambitious makes you a better person, as you get closer to the life you want, you will notice that your anger, your envy, your anxiety will naturally fade away and be replaced by mental clarity, a sense of purpose, a self-confidence that comes from getting things done.