The belows are what a single lady should try to do all time when she feels excited.
- What should a 'chaote' lady do when she is 'in between'?
No relationships, no marriage, so?
I understand your emotions. You are of age, ready but he is not in sight. Anxiety may come strong, but let's talk.
Sometimes you can't place what the problem is and why you are still unencumbered.
You look around and there seem to be others who like you are worried and all manner of 'solutionists' offering this and that solution.
The answer to your anxiety is between you and God and I am going to take my time to deal on this.
I know you are in your late 20's or 30's or even 40's.
What's important now is not what happened but what to do next. Focus!
Take the pressure off your shoulder and stop fishing for 'what the problem is'. Let's find the solution! Anxiety is only going to keep you stuck in the same place.
Even if you were silly or stubborn growing up, receive God's forgiveness and don't live in condemnation, it's no use.
God is not punishing you with being single. He is not angry at you; he took it out on Jesus on the cross already.
No matter what anyone says, do not lower your godly standard because you think age is not on your side.
Now is the time to shut your ears to all the voices of pressure, including your mother if she has joined them.
I know you are genuinely lonely and need company but don't accommodate time wasters just to fill the gap.
Worry won't give you a husband. Anxiety will simply make you look older. God has your man. Calm down!
I will never throw 'prayer' to you as an option, like it has become common to do. Going to God is more than that.
Trust and obey is the right prayer pattern. Don't just talk to God, you must calm down enough and let him speak back. Dialogue is stronger than monologue.
Stop focusing on 'how old you are' or 'who you know who is 40 or 50', it will only send anxiety feats. Let's focus now!
You must make sure 'getting married' does not become a desperate priority above being in God's will for you.
Have mercy on your destiny; cut the desperate moves; cut the decision to accept just anybody. Cut it!
The aboves are whats will helps a single ladies alot.and it will help her to stay away from somethings.