Hello hivers and hive learners’ community, it is a great thing to be on this platform because i have learned many things here that are helping in my life. Through different authors with different ideas, I have a lot here; and I want to say thanks to hive learner initiator.
There was a short video I watch few months ago, according to the author, he said, “saying sorry to someone either the person offends you or you offend someone does not mean that you are coward or you are afraid of that person; it is a mean of resolution a conflict or solving problem that may have caused serious argument.
“The best way to calm my wife down and end argument at home is to say sorry to my wife. Saying sorry may not necessarily mean you are guilty or incompetent; it establishes, mends, and repairs my relationship. It keeps my relationship strong and intact with my wife. There are times my wife offended me at home; and it was expected to come and apolpgize. I would be the one that would say sorry to her; I am doing this to keep peace and harmony at home because it does not take me anything to say sorry. Some people say apology is very hard, but for me, it is very easy. Mr. Lewin, a friend of mine said, ‘I don’t say sorry, and if I say so, the situation must worths it, when i looked into my friend life, he doesn’t give so easily because he cannot of this
Rule, he set for himself. He always had problems with his wife, friends and Neighbours. This standard he set for himself has made some people to distance himself from him, people that doesn’t understand him thought that he is a dangerous man” - Muller
There was a day, I was with my friend, one of the was behind me; the one that was behind me slapped the person in my front. He thought it was me: and abused me so much to the extent they were pegging him to stop. When I discovered that it really hurt him so much, because it is rear for him to get angry to that extent; and without apology the situation would have aggravated beyond our expectation if I wasn’t saying sorry. When I said sorry to him, everything came down and he stopped talking.
That was how everything was calm; I later told him that it was not me but Francis. He said why Did I not tell him that it was Francis; and I said If I tell you, it was him, the situation would have worsened. That was how he said sorry to me again for accusing me wrongly.
Therefore, saying sorry is a strategy for conflict resolution and making peace reign in environment and whole world at large.
Saying sorry can make a lot of things right. A man was emotionally disturbed at home: while getting home, his wife frustrated him more just because he failed to perform his duties while going to office in the morning. instead of the husband to say ‘sorry’, he passed the aggression of what he encountered in the office; and that was how they got divorced.
The same scenario happened to another couple, the husband said, “my sweetheart, I am sorry”, despite the man was frustrated in the office, he refused to pass the aggression to his wife; he pegged his wife and the situation went down.
Friends, learn how to say sorry to others, this is the best way you can live happily because you will never hold anyone grudges. Saying sorry makes resolve issues, gives one the sense of resolution, and creates peace in your environment.
saying sorry doesn't mean you are afraid of the situation, it is a way of averting unseen cirmstances. if the woman who got divorced knew that the situation would be like that, she would have been the one that would have apologized to her husband.
it is never a big issue to say sorry when you make mistakes.
Be the hero of hearts: learn how to say I'm sorry." - Richelle E.
I stand up for success, and success is not achieved by merely making mouth, No room for laziness, no room for idleness. Success comes to the people who are desperately and consciously searching for it. When it seems unsuccessful or you smell failure around you, never discourage yourself to be successful.
“Discouragement and failure are the two surest stepping stones to success.” - Dale
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