It is shocking to see what people you never thought could hurt a fly or do anything bad end up doing at times. You ask yourself if you are dreaming or if this is the same person you've known for very long time? We can truly never just conclude on somebody by what we see at that particular moment. Time is indeed the factor that will reveal people's true colours. It really hurts to see people you hold in high esteem end up disappointing you in a terrible fashion but I guess that's just how life is.
When you think of playing the judge game, you think of your own weaknesses and some of the mistakes you've made in your own life and then you realize that no one is perfect and you have no right to judge anybody. We have all done some things in our lives that we regret and at some points disappointed others that looked up to us too. We all need forgiveness at one point in our lives and we must be willing to forgive others too when they fall and not be quick to judge. It is in such moments that they fallen need our love, support and prayers.
When people fall, we expect them to stand up again but how many people out there actually stretch out a hand to help them stand?
Very few and so many others only point fingers judging and condemning them. We talk and say all sorts of negative things about them instead of helping them to stand. I have come to realize that no matter how much you trust and hold anybody in high esteem, we are all humans and are all vulnerable to making mistakes. Our imperfection is what makes us humans if you think about it.
Only one is perfect and that is God and so, no matter what anybody out there might have done, they are just human. We are all struggling by his grace to be like him and to attain the perfect nature of our father. We need to love each other, support one another and be ready to forgive and accept each other when they fall into life's storms.