I graduated from college and got a good job.
My marriage proposal also began to arrive, but I did not get anyone who could interest me.
then busy work and career turned me away from everything else. Until I was 34 years old.
That's when I realized how hard it was to get married late.
One day a young man came to ask for me. He is older than me 2 years. he comes from a poor family. But I willingly accept himself as it is.
We started to calculate the wedding plans. He asked me a photo copy of ID card for the arrangement of marriage letters. I immediately handed it over to him.
after two days his mother contacted me by phone. He asked me to meet as soon as possible.
I immediately met him. Suddenly he issued a photo copyan ID KTPku. He asked me if my birth date on the ID card is correct?
I replied: Right.
then he said: So your age is approaching the age of 40 years ?!
I replied: I'm exactly 34 years old now.
Her mother said again: Yeah, just the same.
You're thirty years old.
That means your chance to have children is getting thinner.
While I was eager to petite grandchildren.
he would not keep quiet until he ended the process of appointment between myself and his son.
Those hard times are over 6 months.
Finally I decided to go do Umrah pilgrimage with my father, so that I can water my sadness and disappointment in the House.
I went to Mecca.
I sat crying, kneeling before the Kaaba.
I beg God to be given the best way.
After the prayer, I saw a woman reading the Qur'an in a very melodious voice.
I heard it again repeating verse:
(وكان فضل الله عليك عظيما)
"And the gift of God bestowed upon you is great".
(An Nisa ': 113)
My tears were dripping with the hearing of the verse.
Suddenly the woman embraces me into her lap.
And he began to repeat the word of God:
(ولسوف يعطيك ربك فترضي)
"And surely, your Lord shall give unto thee his gift, that thou mayest be satisfied".
(Adh Dhuha: 5)
By Allah, as if I had only heard that verse for the rest of my life. His influence was amazing, my soul became calm.
After the whole Umrah ritual was over, I went back to Cairo.
on the plane I sat on my father's left, while on his right he sat a young man.
Arriving at the airport, I will go down.
In the waiting room I met the husband of one of my friends.
We asked him, in what order did he come to the airport?
he replied that he was again awaiting the arrival of his returning friend in the same plane I was traveling to.
Only a few moments, suddenly his friend came.
Apparently he was a young man sitting in the chair right next to my father.
Next I passed with my father ... ..
I just got home and changed clothes, again cool-cool break, my friend whose husband I met at the airport menelphonku.
Immediately she said that her husband's friend who had been on a plane with me was very interested in me.
he wanted to meet me at my friend's house that night too.
The reason, the goodness needs to be hastened.
My heart was throbbing so hard with a shock I never imagined.
Then I asked for my father's consideration of my friend's husband's offer.
he encouraged me to come to him.
Perhaps that way God gave me a way out.
Finally ... .. I came to visit my friend's house.
Only a few days after that the young man had come to me formally.
and only a month and a half after that meeting we really became a married couple.
My heart really thrills the hope of happiness.
My family life began with optimism and happiness.
I got a husband who really fit my expectations.
He is a very kind, loving, gentle, generous man, has subhanallah morals, plus his family is very good and honorable.
but a few months have passed yet there are no signs of pregnancy in me.
My feelings began to be filled with anxiety.
Especially since I was already 36 years old.
I asked my husband to take me to the obstetrician.
I'm afraid I can not get pregnant.
We went to check with a well-known and experienced doctor.
He asked me for a blood check.
when we received the result of the blood check, he said that there was no need for me to continue the examination, as the result was clear.
Immediately he said "Congratulations, you are pregnant!"
the days of my pregnancy went well, even though I had more trouble than usual.
Probably because I'm pregnant at a slightly older age.
Throughout my pregnancy, I had no desire to know the sex of the child I was pregnant with.
because whatever God has granted to me all is His blessings and grace.
Every time I complain that my taste is too big, the doctor replied:
That's because you're pregnant at 36 years of age.
then come the days that are awaited, the day it is time to give birth.
The caesarean delivery process runs smoothly.
After I realized, the doctor came into my room with a smile floating on his face while asking about the gender of the child I was expecting.
I replied that I only craved God's gifts.
It does not matter to me his gender. Men or women I will welcome with thousands of gratitude.
I was startled by his statement:
"So what do you think if you get Hasan, Husen and Fatimah at once?
I do not understand what he's talking about.
Curiously I asked what he meant?
Then he answered as he calmed me so as not to be surprised and hysterical that God has given me 3 children at once. 2 men and 1 woman.
as if God were willing to give me 3 children at once to catch up with my age and aging.
Actually the doctor knew that I was pregnant with triplets, but he did not want to tell me so I would not worry about my pregnancy.
then I cried while repeating the verse of God:
(ولسوف يعطيك ربك فترضى)
"And surely, your Lord shall give unto thee his gift, that thou mayest be satisfied". (Adh Dhuha: 5)
Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala said:
(واصبر لحكم ربك فإنك بأعيننا)
"And be patient waiting for the judgment of your Lord, for verily thou are under our supervision ..." (Ath Thur: 48)
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