In the twenty years old, most of us feel ourselves as adults. Indeed, in general self maturity is usually measured by age, but not only that. Maturity in how you rightly thinking the main point about something.
most people are in the phase of ‘’where are going’’. Of course, this is not young age. Individuals begin to think of life management to financial independently.
A case, people who has graduated from college and will apply for a job. Because of a condition he had to find work in the village and chose to stay with his family. It's not easy, leave the dream that was so amazing to be able work in company or study abroad. But as a child, his hearts choose to settle in the village.
Or other case examples such as a people who still wants to adventure. However, his parents asked him to work in a bound agency such as a company and even a government agency such as the ASN.
When we have dissent with our parents. This is natural, considering our time with parents are different. In their time, pursuing careers as soon as possible to become ASN is the best way to succeed. However, the difference is now. The world is progressing, technology allows us to explore our abilities.
Certainly parents want the best for their children. These words are words that come out of the mouths of anyone who hears dissent between parents and children. However, how parents understain about their needs and desires? Experience is always the best teacher for someone in the learning process. This is also what becomes a shield for parents in suggesting something. ‘’ At least parents have been young, while young people have never been old ’.
At this age there will be many choices. As hard they to say no, be sure in their hearts to say yes to our happiness. There are two choices, friend . Receive or give understanding. There is no other choice this time, such as insisting on personal opinion and then choosing to go to be a free .
Receiving, will be a wise choice. As long as you are sure, you can. Like pearls in the trench will still be pearls right! No matter how bad the situation, if our parents are happy about what we are going through, surely everything will feel easier. In the Qur'an, surah albaqarah ayat 216 mentions ’you may hate something, even though that is good for you, and may (also) you like something. Even though that is bad for you, Allah knows, while you do not. '
Giving understanding patiently, is a brave choice. Although there are like against parents, don't let their hearts hurt. Because the time will come when you realize that the most beautiful treasure you have ever had is them. They are the source of your happiness, believe me. If you are sure of your choice, take this path! prove that your choice makes you better. Giving understanding to parents will certainly difficulty, with good words and patience. Trust time will help you, don't push because this is the second bad after you think if running is the solution ...
So, it all comes back to ourselves. Don’t do something that makes us regret. Thankyou smart reader!
