Narcissist are not necessarily in love with themselves, like in the Greek myth of Narcis where the beautiful young man falls in love and becomes obsessed of his own reflection. You don't have to be perfect

The word happiness comes from the Viking word: "hap" which means luck. Happiness it is a lot like gambling, because it is dependent so much on your performance in the world. And a huge part of

There is a huge misconception out there, that you can desensitize yourself from emotional pain. For example if you have a phobia, you just need to put yourself in that situation and if you stay long enough

The purpose of abuse is to reduce the amount of options a person has, in order to force it to do things that are questionable or in favor of the abuser. Just because someone is forcing you to do something

The purpose of art is to create beauty, for no other reason than the enjoyment of that beauty. The same way consuming a mood altering substance will give you a positive emotions without the work necessary

In order for evil to succeed you have to destroy free-will, as the purpose of all abuse is to force a decision on someone that is in the disadvantage of the victim. Because the purpose of free-will is

Free-will in the most simple definition I can put it, is the capacity to learn from consequences. Some people however seem to be lost this attribute, like for example an alcoholic, it is not like alcoholics

There have been many revolutions through out the course of history, yet we seem to have the same problems as the oldest civilizations we have a record of, we still have centralized money that get inflated

Whenever you are exposed to long term abuse, in order to minimize the external damage you will have the tendency to control your behavior in order to please your abusers to avoid the negative consequences

Stress is actually good for you, like for example your muscles, if they don't have any stress they atrophy and become weak. However if you stress them too much, too often they will remain sore, you will

It is impossible to offer love as charity even when is from yourself to yourself, because it is an emotion and emotions are involuntary, you can't simply decide who to love or when to love. If you are

To forgive something means to have a complete recollection of a negative event but no negative emotion associated with that memory. the words forgive and forget are very close and related they come from

There are a lot of misconceptions about what makes someone more attractive, you have a lot of industries that are trying to sell you all kind of products and services. Like the cosmetic industry for example,

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Micromanagement is a side-effect of desperation, when someone starts to micromanage something, does so because he has very little understanding of what is causing the problems or what it will lead to that

It is enough to search for the etymology of the word nice to realize that it is not the most healthiest attribute to embody: nice: Middle English (in the sense ‘stupid’): from Old French, from Latin nescius

The path toward success is very narrow, there are a very small limited number of actions that will make you successful, most of the other stuff it is at best a distraction. So routine it is an important

To feel your emotions it's to act on your emotions, it is impossible to just feel a certain thing like anger and remain passive to it. Emotions are simply caused by your body secreting certain hormones