Too much obligations are like bottleneck, I do not like it when my obligations are too many but I can't help it either because each and everytime the things I want are making their matching towards to me, although it's lies in my hands to select which I am to go for and the thing's I have to set aside, so that I would not see myself in the bottleneck I have been trying to escape.
But checking it from the life's of our parents, I became to understand that our parents really tried a lot for us, and I will reason about it, "if life in their time were different from what we see in our dealings in today's life".
Growing up as a child, I used to see my parents not letting a single things me and my siblings want be of a problem to us, they were there for us and they make sure we have anything we want. I am an adult now, I can rightly see the things we children's make most of our parents to go through, although they were always happy doing those things for us, but I can not seize to see it that, it was at the angle of these bottleneck I am trying not to get into that we used to pushed them into.
The life I keep is that, I take time to assess the things I want, and once i do not find any need of why I need to venture on something, I will not even go there, the same thing as trying to spend my time on it.
I do not want to live a life of "it's nothing" and as times goes on, I will be full of regrets that what I did was actually something, but I should have mind my venturing level, because, no obligation pass by without spending, the both things goes hand in hand, so more obligations means much spending and venturing level.
Living my life in the spacious space of mine, has help me to realized that, where much is needed the same much will be expected, then why must I pushed my hands to where i wouldn't reach, while I should just keep it by the side and do not overact myself.
These days I have found peace in the things I do because I have been able to demarcate what's more important and not, and among those things is the bottleneck precess of obligations, the bottle company do not just make the bottle in the same seize all through, at the down side, they leave a big space, and they make customer's see what is Inside the bottle and on getting to the cover where they placed the cork, that's where they minimize the size of the bottle, so that it will fit the mount of each of their consumer.
Taking it back to the obligation, we can see that, it leaves no better room for allowing much obligations to ourselves, even to those who are bread winner in their family, it is good to space the needs of the family members, so that to be able carter for them one after the other, taking everything at once wouldn't be an easy thing.
And even as that, every person's is entitled to lived at ease and not in struggling so that to keep their spacious space of their life.
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