Women who lack emotional intelligence and flexibility in dealing with the people around them are the biggest failures in their marriages and in their lives. Why?
1- She enters into an egoistic battle with her husband, and prefers the voice of her ego to dominate him, and in fact she fails in the face of her husband's ego and the egos of those around her. It goes, because men become more stubborn in front of a stubborn wife and a stubborn sister and become softer in front of a submissive woman.
2- A dignified woman understands that she can win by insisting on her opinion and can stand up to any opposition. She forgets that if she wins with her stubbornness in her opinion and position, she loses the heart that loved and cared for her.
3- Many traditions and wise sayings in all cultures define a gentle, gentle, amiable, patient and tolerant woman. Even the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and the Companions after him recommended and praised a woman who respects her husband and speaks with gentleness and wisdom and as a result he will love her. And will never leave it.
4- The woman who will obey her husband and bow down to weather the storm. She is a wise, wise woman who thrives, and holds the family together. A woman who stands like an unbending dry stick that breaks, suffers irreparable damage.
5- An uncompromising woman sticks to her opinion. She constantly tries to maintain her illusion of victory: I win and you lose, I am right and you are wrong. Such a woman destroys herself before destroying others. And she leads a regretful life in this world and the hereafter.
6- From my experiences in marriage counseling, I realized that abusive women lead to divorce. And fail miserably in their family and social life.
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