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Misunderstanding must undoubtedly occur between people. We are humans and are likely to have misunderstandings at some time. But the final purpose of any misunderstanding should be settling and that can only happen if the two individuals communicate and afterward comprehend each other.
You don't have to hate or separate yourself from someone simply because you both have a misunderstanding.
Several times I have been the middle man, between my two friends and my younger ones while they are quarreling. Most times it doesn't work well since you tend to be mutual.
When I was at the hostel, I have multiple times been a mediator between two of my roommate who is my friends.
When my friends are quarreling I try not to side with anybody in their quarrel since you are generating an idea that you favor one more than one. It preserves your relationship with them.
Even tho one is right to try to be mutual and after the misunderstanding, privately you may call the one who is wrong to order, that is when he or she is calm since an angry person tends not to hear and speaks without thinking.
You need to use wisdom when settling misunderstanding.
I make sure one of them leaves the environment for the main time so the matter won't expand.
Then after some time, when she is relaxed, she may come back.
When being a middle man I try to be cautious so as not to fall victim to their aggression.
Have heard instances of individuals who helped others to resolve quarrels and end up with a large injury or even death, when they are struck anything in the cause of the quarrel.
Being in their middle may not be advisable too.
It is preferable to stay at one side.
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