Over the weekend, I attended a relative’s wedding, and I must admit it left a strong impression on me. Not because it was loud or extravagant, but because it was simple, well-organized, and very intentional.
I was presently present.🥰🥰🥰
Before the wedding, we received a digital invitation asking us to confirm our attendance. The card clearly stated “strictly by invitation” and “no kids allowed.”
To be honest, I wondered how that was going to be possible since we are Africans and most of our wedding events are usually loud, crowded and open to almost everyone.
I made a new friend.
But to my surprise, everything went exactly as planned.
Someone should explain to me why the littel man is playing with his dad's head.
Each guest had an access card meant for just one person. Without it, entry wasn’t possible. This made the event feel calm and controlled. There was no unnecessary rush or confusion.
Without this card you can't come into the venue.
Oh and there where bouncers who where checking the access cards and making sure no rules was broken.
And the foods and drink where more than enough for everyone to eat and drink. We were served small chops before the main meal. There was no shortage and no stress everyone was well taken care of.
Main dish, contained coconut rice, jelloff rice, fish, and more.
I do much loved the fact that the couple were so intentional about their big day. There was no pressure to impress or feed a large crowd of people who barely knew the couple. It was intimate, classy, and focused on celebrating love.
<The game men played to tye their wife's head.
I've always been a fan of small, simple, classy and elegant weddings. I wanted just fifty guest at my wedding but we had more than that.
